So I’m dating a guy, and he says he went to the Bahamas with his guy friends. Sent me pics with no pics of his friends included. He claims guys don’t do that type of thing. For some reason I don’t believe him. Would you? We’ve been dating for over a year and I’ve known him for almost 10 years as just friends. I’m not usually the jealous type however on one hand I want to trust my gut and on the other I don’t want to over react.

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Lord have mercy 🤦🏾‍♀️. I’m sure he has at least a video with him and his boys at dinner or a night out from the vacation.
Since you’ve known him for 10 years, are you familiar with any of his friends?

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Yes after 10 years you’d know who his friends are and maybe even have them on socials? Guys do also post about their vacations! Video call him when they are hanging out and ask to say hi. Btw is he your boyfriend or you’re just dating but not in a relationship??

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No, seems like he’s lying sis. Maybe have a frank conversation with him about it?

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Lmaoooooooooo. Girl you know the answer here. He is on a boo trip and his boo may be a woman or one of his guy “friends”.

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Umm sis… what city does he live in? 😳

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Idk girl, my bf has gone on plenty of guys trips and only came back with 2 group pics and no selfies/individuals. It's totally possible he's telling the truth.

That said, either check the socials of his friends or encourage him to take a group pic because he'll want the memories later

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That’s at least two. Nothinggggg????? Iono bout that chief

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Update? 👀

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Tell him byeeee!

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