So I’m pretty sure my SO is cheating and I want to hack into his social media accounts. I now this is wrong but I need peace of mind. Anyone here have done something like this? Could you please message me directly? I’m considering hiring a hacker lol. Again, I know this is unethical but I honestly need to check my suspicions

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I’m sorry to hear that and my heart’s with you. Have you thought about talking to him? If you end up being right, trust will be broken on both sides. If you end up being wrong, you will have broken the trust. Either way, it’s a lose-lose situation for your relationship.

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You are right. Thank you for the advice. It’s really hard to stop myself from crossing that line. I so badly want to get into his head to really know what is happening

Trust me if you’re in this mindset, sabe yourself some $$$ and call it a day

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If you’re looking for peace of mind, you’re barking up the wrong tree. You need to talk to a therapist. Let me know if you need a good LGBT recommendation.

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Yeah, I would really love that. I’m aware that my behavior is no longer healthy. I honestly can’t stop my thoughts so I would very much appreciate professional help at this point

Just break up. Regardless of if he is actually cheating, the bottom line is you don't trust him. That alone is a big issue.

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Sometimes a feeling is a fact…just talk it through

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If you have suspicions, then you definitely don't have trust, though your instincts are probably correct. Either way, the relationship is doomed so why go through all this trouble like a psycho, why not just break up?

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience and perspective. I think ending this relationship is the right thing to do. It is just so incredibly hard to give up on someone that I still care for a lot. I have tried to have a conversation with him about it but he is simply ignoring my concerns 😞

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Hire a private investigator 🕵️‍♂️

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Just have a conversation with him and decide what’s best for you two.

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I'm really sorry that you're going through this. I saw a text come through one morning on my bfs phone while my bf of 4 years was showering and it was a dirty text from a guy he hooked up with a few weeks prior... it was a massive blow but I addressed it head on. This sort of thing happened before and I realized I was damaging myself by staying with him. We broke up and I ended up moving out of our house that we were renting together. Lots of heart ache but I'm so much better now.

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Damn this makes me sad

Just break up and move on. Life is too short

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I don’t blame you. Hire a private investigator to get to the bottom of this. You deserve to know what’s going on.

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