So I’m seeing this girl. She is moving to another state in about a year but wants to be in a committed relationship aka relationship with an expiration date. I want a “situationship” or something of that type just because of the circumstances. Thoughts? Never been in this situation before

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I don’t think I’d factor in the move. A lot can happen/change in a year, so why stress about it now? I’d just decide whether you want to give it a committed try, or not. How long have you been dating?

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Why is anyone labeling anything as more than just dating after three dates? For all you know she might do something on date five that drives you crazy and you never want to see her again. Just take it one date at a time and see if you want to even entertain exclusivity; I take it you're not there yet.

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What is a relationship with an expiration date?

Guessing: He wants to see other people in the meantime since the relationship is set to die anyway.

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Bruh, worry about it in a year. A lot can happen + a lot can change in during this time.

At least you don’t have to worry about long distance

I heard this term literally for the very first time just last night and was so confused. Honestly still not sure I understand the concept lol, but I can say that I definitely felt that “wait, am I old now?” uncertainty

It's for people with low self esteem who let people get away with treating them poorly, with no expectations. Conversely, it's for people with no guts and too little empathy who want the benefits of a committed relationship with none of the accountability.

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Just don’t knock her up

Any chance she won’t move or that you would move for her? If no and no, I would run before someone catches feelings.

I was in this situation and it seemed like a huge deal at the time. We ended up naturally separated with the distance and are now best friends. Go with the flow.

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