So I’ve been talking to this guy I met on a dating app. And we’ve been talking over the phone and FaceTiming for about a month now. We live in different states but would want to meet up. Is it reasonable to ask if he’s talking to other women? Or is that pretty standard with these dating apps to be talking to multiple people until you both decide to be exclusive. Just wondering if it makes sense to ask that now or I’m probably just overthinking the whole thing.

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You’re maybe overthinking it. I think it’s safe to assume they’re talking to other people, as y’all aren’t exclusive yet.

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Exclusive yet? They haven’t even met yet

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I think since you’re in different states and haven’t actually been dating, you’re definitely not exclusive and he’s talking to other women.

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At this stage, I wouldn’t ask.

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It’s already weird to have “the talk” a few months in. Imagine before meeting for the first time. Don’t ruin it if you care!

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It's to be expected but if you're curious, I don't see a problem with asking. Just don't act like a crazy gf

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Why do you want to know now? Is this going to influence your desire to meet up with him or something?

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Of course he is

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It’s safe to assume he might be talking to others and that until you’ve actually met and gotten on the same page about what you’re both looking for, I wouldn’t expect otherwise.

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