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“Do yourself a favor and take mixed signals as a No.”
He probably unfortunately met someone else or reconnected with someone from the past
My thought exactly! Confirmation! Thank you!
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If you're looking for a relationship, don't waste your time with people who don't want to commit after a couple of months. People will string you along if you let them. Date with intention.
He didn’t want you coming out of this season thinking oooh holidays with boo. But it’s still about to be cold outside.
After months. Personally I think if he didn’t say he’d like to just continue a friendship, I suspect he’s thinking FWB.
Ain’t happening. Nope 👎🏽
Keep it moving, unless you truly want to hang out, and maybe have sex. 🙄 You’re obviously beautiful and interesting, don’t waste your pretty on him.
I know my response on this is mad late, but in the infamous words of Maya “OH HELLLLL NO!” 😂😂 Please drop him sis if you haven’t already. Don’t even waste another MINUTE of your golden time. He’s playing games only to have you in his back pocket if/when whichever shorty he’s talking to now doesn’t work out lol. Don’t beat yourself up for dating him. If it was a good time, let it remain as is but move on & do you boo💕
😂😂😂 I’m feeling that! I can’t do it, no bad feelings, once I lose interest I’m done. Ima have to let him know so the accumulation of unanswered texts can stop 🎤 drop.
If I may offer an alternative view: don’t we all wish to not be strung along? You date a guy for weeks, months. You think it’s going somewhere and are blindsided when it’s not. In my opinion he just did you a solid by not letting it get too far down the road. The wrapping on the gift may not have been great, but at least he told you now rather than later.
Me personally I’d leave him alone from there. Do you really need to be friends with him? For what? Whatever he has going on, no need for you to get in the middle, only to get your feelings hurt. Wish him well and move on.
Honestly, he could also just not have been that interested. Like “I kinda like you and obviously we enjoy hanging out, but I’m not falling in love.” I kinda get it because I can easily flirt/get along with most people and it’s easy to just keep going the way things are, but you want someone who is deeply into you and if it ain’t him, then he’s just not the one.
True, True True. Been there. But never mentioned falling in love or deep love. Good point maybe that was what he was afraid of who knows. But I know i don’t want any playmates that afraid to text something that I feel is an important face to face covo. So “I’m not ignoring the signs” I’m out ... been there and did that too!😂😂😂 thx
Honestly, I have a male friend who was just in this same situation and it has nothing to do with another woman. She was simply more invested in the relationship than he was. He had other priorities right now with business and family and knew he wasn't going to be able to reciprocate. Rather than lead her on, he broke it off.
Thanks everyone!
I want to say I like your attitude. You’ve got a great one. A lot of ladies would be making excuses for him but not you. You have your standards and good for you. Keep them.
How did you respond?
It took a while but I respond with a “LOL” ... then said np have a good night. It was weird, not sure was I pissed or more so wth just happened. I’ve been avoiding convo with him.. he wants small chat. I don’t have time for nonsense.