So there I was minding my own business when my supervisor randomly exclaims “Please Don’t Leave Us”, I know you must do what’s best for your family, but if leaving us is on the table…then take it off the table”

Naturally, I laugh awkwardly…

Note: Ive made no mention of me attending an interview with another employer nor my lack desire to deal with this establishments self-centered motives to anyone.

Can someone advise what to do in this situation?

I’ll provide a few more details below.

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Do nothing. Or respond vaguely. They're trying to bully//manipulate you into staying even though they know they probably won't pay you your worth anytime soon. If you're planning on leaving, continue to do it quietly. If not this could be a sign that its time to! Anyone who actively tells others to choose what's best for the company over their family is...yikes.

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Thank you. Yes I’ve actively been pursuing employment elsewhere. I’m waiting to hear back from a notable University now.

It’s been proposed that my raise was put in as a “request” in May. After careful research and inquisition, it was brought to my attention that my requested promotion/raise will probably not be addressed until OCTOBER.

So tell me why my supervisor felt the need to mention it to me in May. And then felt the need to lie and say “The manager told me it was put in immediately”. 🤔

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