So very attracted to the new sister-in-law-in-law. Would never actually pursue, but 🔥

We recently sleep trained our 7 month son. He went from waking up multiple times during night and taking only 30 minute naps 3 times during day (most cases nursed to sleep or rocked to sleep or took a drive) to sleeping 12 hours at night without interruption and two 2 hour naps and one 45 minutes nap during day. We both love that he is getting enough sleep and well rested on one hand. On the other hand, we are now wondering if he is sleeping way too much.. contd…

Been actively applying to jobs with no bites. Feeling pretty disheartened because really want to relocate closer to family. Going to keep trudging!

31 F, looking to date seriously and have a true connection, Nj area

I have been apartment hunting in the Austin area. I need to move closer to work. The commute is emotional damage lol. I’m being dramatic. Nonetheless, I need to be closer to work.

My question is does anyone have experience or feedback to give about renting a room in a house and sharing common area with roommates?

It is one option I am considering, but hesitant to go this route.

27 years M from suburbs Chicago looking to date

A good friend’s dad just passed away because of COVID. He is devastated. I’m trying to do something to be helpful, but don’t know what I can do...

Anybody here send your kids to charter schools? What’s that experience like? I just heard about them for the first time and am curious as someone who is starting a family soon.

I have a pretty passionate hate for those who have “no fault” divorces. These people can’t keep one single promise in their life even when they have the choice of anyone on an entire planet and are not forced one bit into a decision.

30 m ny/nj. US citizen. Moved as a teenager. INTJ. Single since I figured I’m not fighting the biological clock and have all the time in the world to meet someone and get settled. Things changed after I watched Akshay’s mom (Indian Matchmaking) tell him even 25 is too late and not marrying somehow messes up lives of people around him. While the show was staged, there might be truth to the latter part.
Looking for F in ny/nj. Personality: NOT Aparna. NOT Nadia but def more Nadia than Aparna.🙏

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

I think I have depression. how the f to get out of it and get myself out of bed?

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

NOT Preaching Alert🚨 but folks on work visa in US, I know its very confusing and uncertain environment that’s increasing our anxiety everyday BUT remember that when you came here you didn’t have anything and most likely have earned/learned so much in terms of education, experience, cultural values, and money ofcourse that it must have prepared you for other options if things don’t work out here. Don’t lose heart and take one day at a time. You got this! We will survive.

Does anybody actually work for their apartment, house, wedding, children, anything anymore? I honestly feel like I work with 98% parent fund babies. Maybe it’s NY but fuck, I find it all pathetic.

I'm planning my budget for MBA right now. Do you have any thoughts on how to reduce living costs? I'm going with my wife and we don't want to share an apartment. *Continued...

My husband quit his very well-paying job in February to become a freelancer. I was fully supportive of this move because he was miserable at his job. He is hustling and trying to find work but it is slow. We are depleting our savings and I am stressed about our financial health and feel like retirement is getting pushed further out. I am struggling not to feel resentful. I don’t want to push him back into a career he hates but also feel like part of being an adult is making hard decisions.

I don’t use dating apps for dating. I match w/men & quickly move to text. A week later, we meet. I analyze their psychological makeup, set boundaries (only kissing). They want to meet again. I can’t. So we connect via text/video calls. I show my vulnerabilities, insecurities. They open. Trust is built. Subtly, I help them face their blindspots (mostly emotions little boys are taught to repress). Friendship replaces romance & I gently release them back into the dating pool. This is my work.

Does talking to a hiring manager change anything if you’re already rejected by the system?

Hi Guys,

I have been asked to register for National Skills Register by Nasscom at the new company. Is it mandatory to register ? If yes, what is this used for ? Please advice

Thanks for your help in advance!

The company has this rule where we have to check customers' IDs if they are buying anything age-restricted (alcohol, etc.) I hate it because customers get super mad at me and one of them told me "if you think I'm too young then you're stupid and don't deserve to have a job." It's not my policy guys, it's the company. I tell people I would get fired if I didn't do this and they never believe me

Last working day is in Mid October . Will I get bonus in this August. Some people say I’ll some say don’t. Please advise. EY GDS

What recruiting companies have you worked with in the past to land a new role? How do you reach out to them? I’m looking for a new opportunity and have never initiated contact with a recruiter before.

I am working as SDE2 and may be promoted to SDE3 in coming months. What are the compensation I can expect ?

Going to the Bahamas next week. Wanted to know if anyone knows how to get a better rate at the royal at Atlantis? Right now it’s hovering $300 a night

Can anyone tell which company i join between nokia networks and ihs markit(s&p global)

First year Manager. Hired as a SA from MBA program in 2014. Base $154. Good or bad??

I have gotten 17k in raises (~$1000/month after deductions) since entering consulting yet it feels like I’m barely getting by financially. Any of you feel like this or have any insight into this?

Anyone know the benefits at AWS?

Happy New Year, Pharma Fishies.

Writers are soon going to need basic Figma knowledge in order to stay competitive.

Do you feel like COVID made your job seem cooler or more important? Thinking of people who work for Zoom, Slack, or just anything that people pay a bit more fing attention to and appreciation for.

Which cities or states would recommend to move to for Cleared Tech Professionals?

Besides DC, MD and VA. Currently live in that area now.

god i don’t care about this industry soo much.

My personality is better online than in-person and I don’t know what to do about it.

Looking for a girl who wants to be a good mom. Now accepting applications.

Ok workaholics. Maybe you’ll love this teasing from my boss. I’m leaving at 5 (ya know, the end of the day) and she says to others in our conference room as I pack up my things, “She’s only working a half day today!”
Also my company constantly pushes health and wellness, but when I told my manager I was taking a break she said “oh we get those?”

Yes, we do get those. And leaving at 5 is called having healthy boundaries with work.

Me: “You’re gonna marry me one day!”
Him: “If I play my cards right, you’ll say yes to me one day!”
Me: 🥹🥹🥹 (and that was after I queefed in his face when he went down on me. Yep, I’m the person who posted that just the other day in the “most embarrassing in bed story thread. Y’all should go join in on the fun and read some crazy funny stories😂)

Today is my last day working for the most toxic company and CEO!!! Can’t wait to start my new role later this month! 🎉✌️

You don’t have to sacrifice humanity for exponential growth! People build great companies

I keep forgetting to put away my vibrator on cleaning day. This time they even wrapped the cord up. 🧹🧹 🧹

Quiet quitting is all well and good, but it’s loud quitting that really gets things done.

Can anyone tell me if BOA / Bank Of America drug test? I need to get outta Wells. They’ve been stressing me out so much I’ve been smoking like a chimney.

Absolutely buzzing to start my new role at BCG in a few weeks. Any suggestions to read books/materials before joining to better prepare?
They have an online training portal that I was given access to and I completed those. Just looking for more. TIA!

Better Call Saul is the greatest TV show ever.
This is the hill I’m willing to die on.

Imposter Syndrome:
I was hired even though I felt unqualified. I now realized the people that hired me thought I was senior at my previous job when I wasn’t... I never lied about anything during my interview and talked about my duties. I only realized this after I got hired and the team introduced me saying all these fabulous “senior” things that I did - which is true (more like acting senior duties) 😅 what do i do!! Do I tell them I wasn’t a senior? I’m not behind on my work or anything