Sober Sunday check in. How’s everyone doing?

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Today’s my seven day streak of not drinking! I haven’t gone sober this long since I was in undergrad. It was easier than I thought, because the pros outweigh the cons. Usually Sundays are spent in bed with an awful hangover, it feels awesome to have a whole day back

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Thank you! I can’t wait till I’m there. One day at a time

Good ... glad to be alive

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18 months August 9th 🙌🏻

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I'll be 18 months August 24th!!

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3.5 years for me!!! Much better self esteem and confidence!! Getting what I am and I deserve to be! :-)

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17 years for me... and my life has never been better

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2 months soon. Total grind for me

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The end of my suffering occurs with the death of my ego. I am reborn when I surrender to life exactly as it is, right at this moment (and it’s always “this moment”). I can begin to grow when I either accept life as it is, or I change my life because I can’t accept it. The better I become at surrender and acceptance, the more I experience serenity. After a long enough time I realize I’ve had a spiritual awakening. Now I am peace / joy / love.

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