Soooo, I have to travel for an interview this Monday and I'm feeling super self-conscious, because I've gained some, ahem, weight. I dread going shopping for a suit that fits...even with the prettiest suit, I'm still going to look fat. Naturally, the interviewers are all men at least 10 years younger than myself. Last month I was on my 4th round with a company then I personally met the team. A day later, I get the rejection email. Anyone been in this situation or have any advice?

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So what if you look fat? I’ve never been skinny and still get the jobs I go for because my confidence and competency aren’t based on my dress size.

My advice would be to get clothes that fit you properly and be present during the interview, not fidgeting with your outfit or trying to hide yourself. You don’t owe anyone a certain look.

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WHAT?! I’m so sorry. If you are certain you were dressed appropriately, this is where you make him put it in writing. I would send a follow up with exactly what wax said and ask for clarification. See if he’s bold enough to put it in writing.

Similar situation to you!! The Ann Taylor curvy suits (I got the Factory ones) are AMAZING and some Skimms shapewear! I went from a size 8 to a size 12 over the pandemic.

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Omg, I didn't think of AT either, I'm so glad I asked you wise ladies. I'm sure we're not alone in our expanding waistlines...ugh. Thank you for sharing with me...:)

Honest question? Is this a thing? Do women really not get opportunities if we are on the heavier side? I know everyone is biased in some way but didn’t think built was an issue too.

Yes, it happens unfortunately.

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