Sorry, this post is off-topic.

My colleague informed me that her family is looking for a groom for her, and she will accept her parents' choice of action. She is also ecstatic.

I respect her decision, but I also feel about her. As we are both working on the same project, I don't say anything to her before because I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. I'm fairly sure she doesn't feel anything for me.

I'm now perplexed. Should I tell her or ignore it?

For me, her happiness is important.

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Go on-site you will get better options… Russian bhi Sab bhul jayega Ek raat main

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Bhai jab usse interest Hota tu yeah sab nai puch raha hota. Focus on future opportunities rather than wasting time. Woh on-site wake ke Saath settle bhi jayegi

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Girls ko pata hota h, if you like them. They are sensitive about it.
If she didn't approach you in that regard it surely means either she don't feel for about you. Or she was telling you, she has chosen her way, you should think of yours too.
Hope it helps. Others can have different option. But, this is what I see

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Don't go chasing if they ain't teasing

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For your own sake, think twice before letting your feelings out infront of her. Work place harassment is a real thing.

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That's why I haven't said anything to her.
As I said earlier, I don't want to make her uncomfortable. For me, her happiness is matters.
If she is happy with some other guy, I am also happy for her.

with the chances of being rejected to be 100%, I would still express my feelings..not for getting badly affected or making things worse..but to not have a regret whole life..ki kaash bol diya hota

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I will say what we did during my friend’s situation. We hired a marriage broker sent rishta to her house along with other matches and made that marriage broker speak great about my friend’s profile only. So like that we made a match in heaven. Think if she’s worth the effort. If yes then you can proceed. Or else marry your parents choice. Dil bada backchod he bhai. Mat pado usk chakkar me

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That's a good technique

IELTS ? GRE ?

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TVF cubicles huh?

One of my teammates told me the same thing. At that time I was worried but for the project 😂.

I think you have a golden heart that's why you are still worried about her while writing this post.

As you said, she has no feelings for you so it's better to stay calm and don't take any action.

This is the normal situation. You need to wait and watch. Maybe this is only an attraction.

Please focus on your short term and long term goals. You will get more option in the future.

Good luck 🤞

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If she is not interested, better not to speak abt it to her

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Kitna Vella h yar ye Banda

Or kuch nahi h kya bro poochne k lie ?

Teko bhav ni deti wo bandi. Yaha bakloli karne agya .

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Don’t confront about anything with her if she is going for that thing it means she doesn’t have anything for you just let it be and focus on carrer and also on onsite 😅

I was 1000 % sure that the girl had no feelings for me and it was totally one sided.Still I took the risk thinking that Life gives us only one opportunity and I didn't want to spend my whole life regretting.

I went for lunch with her and collected some courage and told her my feelings to her.

She was shocked as she didn't expected this . I left the place and feeling better.

Next day she came wearing a blue colour suit and told me that she needs some time to think and after one week we started dating.

So Fuck the world and tell your feelings. Take the risk and remember it's always worth taking .

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