Started a new job and my anxiety has never been higher. There is so much adjustment and change in this busy time and I feel like I’m so behind. It’s only been a week and I already feel like a failure.

I read somewhere in Glassdoor that Nagarro proposed (or might be implemented) 10% pay cut in Covid Times. Is it true ?

Is it normal for a recruiter to ask for your date of birth (Month and Year) and the last four of your social? 👀 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

The recruiter says the client (Pharma) is asking for this. 🤔 What say you?

Hi,
My onboarding date as per IBEGIN was 14th Sep 2022 but i haven't yet recieved any onboarding link or call. I tried to connect with recruiter but as usual they are neither picking calls nor replying the mail.
Shall i start looking for some other options or wait

What’s the biggest mistake you have made as a marketplace seller? How could you have avoided it? What was the lesson learned through this experience if any?

Recently purchased a home and starting the design process - planning to spend $70k on furniture in the next 6 months (sourcing through designer, not through big box retailers). What are the best credit cards out there right now with 0% APRs and rewards/cash back? Partner and I have excellent credit.

Does anyone have an Individual/Solo 401(k) for their personal business?
Are you doing the mega back door strategy?
If yes, what’s your plan provider?

I’m looking to set this up for my wife’s business but haven’t found a good one that offers the option for voluntarily after tax contributions with in-plan Roth conversion.

Any Dallas/DFW area new moms or locals support groups? New to the area but with covid hard to get out, want to get to know other new moms who are also in the accounting field.

In your opinion, what does sales enablement mean, and how does it function between sales and marketing? The space is still so new that it seems you hear a different definition with each person you ask!

Curious to know what you all think…

Hi Fishes, Any reference would be appreciated. Looking for a job change, YOE: 5 years Skills: COBOL, JCL, DB2, IMS DB, File-Aid, CA7.
IBM CGI Bank of America Valeo Sopra Steria Societe Generale HCL Technologies Hexaware Technologies Capgemini Tech Mahindra Infosys Accenture Mindtree DXC Technology

In Background verification how many last companies will be checked? Or will they do verification with all the last companies?

Currently working as a sales engineer and thinking of doing a part time CS Masters in Penn State. The main purpose is that my role is perceived as none technical and a CS Masters would keep technical opportunities open for me (my undergrad is mechanical engineering).
I could be technical by learning on the side, but I do want the degree as proof.
Any thoughts or advice or would this be a waste of time? This is more a defensive play.

I work as a teacher in middle school and I want to start a every day life coaching business for kids in middle school. I am not sure where to start, any advice?

Hey all, I’m looking for a referral to @Spotify. Is anybody willing to help, I can share my resume with you as well. I appreciate your help.

I’m (37m) considering leaving a 6+ year relationship because of mismatch libido and preferences. I want 2-3 times per week. She wants one phoned in session every 10 days. I’ve read every book and implemented every expert tip. She doesn’t seem to want to put in the work to find a work around. She’s pushing hard for marriage and kids but I’m worried I’m walking into a dead bedroom and eventual divorce. Has anyone here been in my shoes?

Interested in development. Any recommendations on how to get started? Are there any organizations that will fund any part of a development project?

Hi,
I am looking for a change.
I have 5+ years of experience in Business Intelligence Development.
Technologies: Sql, Jasper Reports, Tableau

Thank You!!

Last December, my mom said I needed to check myself into a mental hospital. It was a deliberate attempt to hurt, she knew I was getting help and not at risk.

We've had little contact this year but I feel intense guilt about her not seeing her grandkid much. Im learning about our intergenerational trauma and how to set better boundaries. She continually violates them. She sends texts to say I'm "mean" and "ruining the holidays".

Does the guilt go away? Do you go no contact, kid included?

So my bipolar dad got declined for a mortgage because disability gets shut off in < 3 years when he turns 65. So now he wants me to co-sign for him. Between housing markets being up, my concerns over his money mgmt, and concerns over tying up my credit there’s no way I can say yes. He sold his house before being approved for the new one he put in for (against my advice). I know he won’t understand and will take this personally, and the family will probably take his side. Gonna be a long week…

Does anyone know a good career coach or counselor.... I really need to talk with someone about my future. I really don’t think consulting is right for me given my bipolar disorder but Idk what to do

On a break after 10 yrs together, most recently 7 yrs of intercontinental long distance. I’m not sure what to do anymore. I just want to sink into the earth but I’m making myself go for a walk instead

Every day is a rough day. No day is a good day

Finding that I can't think of ideas/responses as quickly as before. And also sometimes what I say doesn't come out to make much sense. Not sure if this is the result of overthinking or something else.

Dealing with post partum dep/anx. On my 5th day of Zoloft 50mg for the first time and the days are still really really hard. Is it the side effects? How long before I should feel somewhat better/normal? Really struggling today. Any insight into your experience would mean a lot.

Anyone else feel constantly bored but when you try to do something anxious. I am trying to find the happy medium

Hello everyone, I’m an international student in Canada, I graduated from college and now I’m working a job that is killing me. I get very anxious at my workplace because the work conditions make the job more dangerous, & the workload usually gets my sugar levels either very high or very low (I have T1D). I’ve been working on a professional certificate in order to switch careers, but every time I just feel so depressed & I can only think of kill myself.

I just want to get better & enjoy life.

Lexapro has been life changing

Anyone gets migraine as soon as you start to work?

I’m so depressed

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

I have not been to therapy since I was young but I know I need to start going due to depression and trauma. What type of clinician should I actually be looking for?

I got promoted, but so did the other guy. We’re on a small team and all I can do is compare myself to him and obsess over what that conversation must have looked like. Who was closer? Who was better? Etc.

I know it’s dumb. We both got what we wanted and he’s AWESOME! It’s totally fair, but has anyone else struggled with this? Just checking.

I am really suffering with God knows what. I don’t want to label it, but all I know is that I don’t have any motivation to do anything. This morning when my husband was talking to me I could barely

Anyone have family members with Schizophrenia? My sister has something going on mentally.. and there is nothing else I can attribute it too.

Been through some tough times before, but today’s really breaking me. Have great friends and people around me but I can never see them anymore. Miss my family. Now sitting in the bathroom crying

First day of new job outside of consulting... I'm nervous