Started first REAL job in 10 years and feeling overwhelmed with the expectations I have for myself and feeling afraid because I know I won't be getting a break anytime soon (versus being a Sahm where I often had a few hours a week to myself) being told "that's life" isn't helping

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Try to take it one day at a time. It’s less overwhelming if you do that.

That's a big transition you're going through! It'll take some time to find your balance. It would be great if you could find someone to talk to who won't dismiss your challenges.

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