Started onboarding for a gig assignment 2 weeks ago that I voluntarily accepted. After getting a taste of the new work + performing my full-time responsibilities, I’ve decided to meet with the gig manager tomorrow to let her know I don’t want to continue. I’ve been feeling burnout and mentally capped because of COVID fatigue and WFH. Feeling anxious about sharing my decision and need advice on how to approach the conversation. Thanks!

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You volunteered so it’s kind of on you. I would wait until there’s a natural end point, like you’re done with first drafts or something like that then bow out to lessen the blow.

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Completely understand that perspective. Thank you for the honesty!

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