Starting to casually date again and I’m curious to know you alls thoughts on the being too available theory?

So many guys lurk in this bowl even if it is ‘desi ladies’. The minute I respond to any post related to dating, multiple guys try to slide into DMs acting innocent as if they are just ‘curious’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤦🏻‍♀️

What’s the hottest thing to try in bed?

Normally I would love to be a pro in a bowl, but ouch. I am a pro at apparently being a single man in his 40’s….sigh

After watching Arpana and her attitude in Indian Matchmaking, purani kahawaat yaad aagayi...
“ Na shakal na *^*^* Aur nakhre unchi unchi”

I always fall for someone who tells me later that they are married and just want a side hook up. I hate the feeling of going home alone while they go back to their partner... 😔

I'm single and well paid. I'm fit and good looking. I'm fun to hang out with. I'm a good listener. That's it. I'm happy being single. I'm not looking to date anyone or looking for a long term relationship. I have amazing friends, amazing family and I go on casual dates once in a while. Extremely happy with my life and don't want to change anything about it.

I just started dating my first gf (we're both fairly new this) TMI Q - but any recs when looking for a strap for first timers? 🥺

25 F 🐠 anyone free for a drink in midtown?

Purposefully haven’t opened WhatsApp messages since last week from the person I’ve been having an affair with. Waiting to see how long until they worry… or if they just stop reaching out (doubtful). I’m so petty and pathetic for caring.

Hey y’all. Anyone want to grab a drink? 35|F|newly single

I got reprimanded by a man for having an uninspired point of view of a conference call. He then gave me his inspired POV...which was exactly the same. When I pointed that out he said, “huh. Maybe.”

My new anthem for dating. ‘ I don’t care - who you are, where you’re from, what you did, as long as you love me!’

I deleted my dating apps for a while - is it rude to come back to previous matches who had reached out and explain I was off for a bit?

How often do you see your significant other when you’re dating as an official couple?

Do powerful and successful men prefer the same with their partners? I find myself attracted to men who are ambitious. With ambition, often comes success. Last few guys I've been talking to -it seems like they want a trophy wife who can pop them babies and be a robot.

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Any single F wants to get a drink tonight? 😀

3 weeks after me and the girl I was seeing ended things, she posts a pic from the wedding she had invited me to, with a new guy captioned “Babe”. Trust your gut folks, it’s always right.

I wish women were paid the same as men so that I can have a sugar daddy mama.

Don’t want to sleep with men, because gay duhhh, but totally would give my body and mind to a rich woman for a compensation.

I was on the course with my mentor this week for a business related event. All the men continually thought we were the cart girls and asked us to fetch them things despite being in a regular golf cart and wearing our (not beverage or course) company polos. Part of me wants to just say “it was hot anyone could make that mistake!” But part of me also feels like it was sexist and, based on prior experiences, it’s hard not to feel that way. Thoughts on and advice for these situations?

For those who are happy with their job and roles… how long did it take you to get there?

How challenging is it to move from IT consulting to Management consulting?

Background: B Com + MBA (Finance)

Total exp: 1.2 years in IT consulting

Hello all,
Can anyone refer me in Wipro for SAP WM?

Hey everyone,
I just moved to the Indianapolis area and was hoping you could help identify what the salary market was here. I have my BS in mechanical engineering, MS in engineering management, and an MBA. I have been working in the auto industry for 7 years. Ideally I would love to find a project manager or similar position at a larger size company. Thanks for the help.

How difficult is obtaining an AWS cloud practitioner cert if you’re not particularly technical?

Is anybody else having a really difficult time hiring for employees to work in the office full-time? My boss is against working remotely or offering a hybrid option. I’ve never had such a hard time filling roles. This includes finding a new in-house recruiter.

What’s a better choice to transition from recruiting to Human Resources? A masters degree or SHRM certification? I have a bachelors degree in Labor and Employment Relations, which was parallel with a HR degree.

115000 Bonvoy Points vs $500 cash (corporate rate) for 3 night stay. Which is the best value here?

Any luxurious spa recommendations? I've been looking at the Four Seasons and Mandarin Oriental, but there's gotta be more options in the DC area.

I want to ask for a 20%raise, knowing that the company is planning the year budget around now should I give my manager a heads up as to what I’m expecting before my salary review? I got a 0.6% raise at the start of 2020 and a 4% in April this year. The raise this year came with the title of “Lead” and more work responsibilities, talking with a co-worker we now make about the same amount. I started working here right out of college (10 years).

Advice for young attorneys dealing with non-billable workload? I’m still my first two months at my firm but a ton of the work I’m being assigned is non-billable. I understand if I’m not still fully on boarded but how are we supposed to keep up billables while being given time consuming non billable work?

I have an interview at a large pharma company this week for a commercial role, associate director level. I’ll be interviewing with a panel of directors via video call.

What is the appropriate attire for this setting? It seems a little crazy to wear a suit jacket to a video call.

Any recent BBH LA experiences?

What are your thoughts on smaller sized agencies? (Company size 2-10 employees)

Does all the creative work get pinned on one person?

Based of socal. How’s everyone’s staffing in the surrounding areas and what’s your management doing to ease staffing? How’s your retention rates and what are you guys doing to keep the staff nurses happy and retain them?

Does TCS provides cab or bus facility in Pune / Mumbai?If yes what are the charges.

Anyone who got Form 60 for BH registration from TCS? Please mention the procedure. Thank you.

I'm single and well paid. I'm fit and good looking. I'm fun to hang out with. I'm a good listener. That's it. I'm happy being single. I'm not looking to date anyone or looking for a long term relationship. I have amazing friends, amazing family and I go on casual dates once in a while. Extremely happy with my life and don't want to change anything about it.

I deleted my dating apps for a while - is it rude to come back to previous matches who had reached out and explain I was off for a bit?

How often do you see your significant other when you’re dating as an official couple?

8 years together, one married. In our 30’s.

I find my husband physically attractive but am not passionate about him or do not feel “pulled” towards him. Is this normal?

3 weeks after me and the girl I was seeing ended things, she posts a pic from the wedding she had invited me to, with a new guy captioned “Babe”. Trust your gut folks, it’s always right.

So something crazy happened to me last week. I was at the airport, and as usual on call after call. The check in line was going ridiculously slowly and at some point turned threw my hands up in frustration while looking around to find another place to check in. In doing so, I catch the eye of the behind me. He smiles and says something. I just sort of nod and carry on with my call. After that, he keeps trying to talk to me, eventually I got to the check, say bye and leave. At security… tbc

Am I too rigid for not wanting add a third person into my intimate life? My guy wants to experience it but only with me and anyone I choose. Thoughts?

My girlfriend is willing to break off our entire relationship because she found out my mom doesn't approve of her. We have no issues between each other but she said she can't be with someone who's family doesn't like her.

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

What do you do if your best friend has seemingly been ignoring you for a week? Just leave them alone and wait for them to come around? Feeling sad

F, 32 years old here: Why is it that guys are so boring with their responses when chatting on dating apps? Are most guys just boring? Or are they just not interested (then why like my picture or match with me??)? I always feel like I’m the only one making jokes/trying to liven up the conversation.

My old side piece and I have been over for a minute now. It was fun until we fell for each other. We are both 'happy'in our current relationships. We took a break from talking, it seemed like we were both still sensitive about the past and still have love for each other. Recently, he reached out and voiced that he wants to talk more. He video chat me, and now texts frequently. But he only texts when he's at work or in his car, when his girlfriend isn't around. Does this mean anything?

Boyfriend has seemed to be dropping a ton on me lately, even after I got bad news that my company is t doing so hot this week and layoffs are approaching. First it was that we may be moving to another state for his job, then it was that his brother may need to move in with us for a few months after he graduates

It’s just a bit overwhelming at this time and I’m not sure how to communicate through all of this being thrown at me. 3 yrs together and we were friends for many years before that.

Meeting a guy through arranged marriage setup (I am south asian), the guy thinks that girls don't need to work after marriage as husband takes care of expenses , I want to say no to this person for proceeding . basically I feel this person lacks common sense that 2 incomes is better than one in a household. what is the best way to reject this potential groom candidate ?I feel a girl need not sacrifice her career after getting married , as marriage is not life it is part of life.

What usually warrants a married couple to start living separately and coparent their child? No job or financial constraints just that the wife moved from the house with their child to an apartment nearby.

My younger brother (formerly estranged to me) reached out to reconcile. Fast forward, and he’s asked me to be his best man. My wife is pissed because my family have not been great to her recently, and me being the BM means we have to go to the wedding and she may have to sit alone with people she (rightly) hates. How do I fix this? Am I fucked no matter what I pick?

How to deal with post-breakup guilt? A few months ago I broke up with my college boyfriend of 2.5 years. We had plans to move to a new city together and get married. But as reality set in, I realized I didn’t want to spend my life with him. TLDR; He really let himself go, had no interest in things I found fun, was uncompromising, had a terrible work ethic, delusions of grandeur, unrealistic goals that he put zero effort towards, etc. At the time of the break up his inability to get a job (cont.)