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They’re not “red flags” they’re “fun facts about me”
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Who's your favorite DJ and why is it Illenium? 🤔
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The mirror effect.
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There was a man in my bed when I expected my girlfriend!! I kissed him and cuddled him too
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Fo real?
The other woman texted me a photo of my husband and her and said “your husband is a piece of sh*t”. They had been sneaking behind my back for two years. Then since I was shocked and said I needed proof she proceeded to send me the password to his secret email account he kept to stay in touch with her and I read their emails and exchanges. Then I threw up. And left him the next day.
I’m doing great! I left him in 2014. So it’s been over 8 years now and I am way better off. I am living with my boyfriend of five years and we are about to get married and try for a family. I am so happy I was able to work through everything. Went to LOTS of therapy, including EMDR to deal w the trauma because I was having hyper vigilance and just unbelievable amounts of mistrust of others… which makes sense. So, all in all I’m so much better and strangely, being at rock bottom really forced me to dig down deep and be a bit selfish and learn to take care of myself better. I am so much more confident in who I am. And speaking my mind. I am super transparent because lies upon lies just ruined my life. So I refuse to lie and I have faced things I would be afraid to face in the past. Thanks for asking. :-)
I didn’t find out until 3 months after our breakup through her Twitter posts. She was from 2 hours across the state and had just moved for work, so we had different friend groups. She started gaslighting me which led to the eventual breakup (I mean hey, I work for a public accounting firm, I’m good at keeping records and referring back to old messages so I know what I said and didn’t say). It was clear she was manipulating me and not being honest.
Anyway, I never had a Twitter account and she knew this, which is why I’m assuming she was so brazen with it. But while we were dating she would post tweets about sweet things I was doing for her, and then a week or two later make a similar post about somebody else. Eventually in her posts she had started to referring to the things I was doing as “her tinder date” even though we were Facebook official (she deactivated her Facebook account because she claimed was going through mental health issues and didn’t like her own face at that point in time).
In actuality she was actively searching for my replacement while I warmed her bed and we semi-lived together for 3-4 nights a week. The same day she broke up with me and ended our ~8 month relationship she went on another date with a football player that had just graduated college (so 4-5 years younger than I was at the time). She posted on Twitter later that same night after her date on and said “have we just met? It feels like I’ve known you forever” and began the love bombing process all over.
But after I found her Twitter profile, I estimate she went on dates with at least 4 other guys while she was dating and in a committed relationship with me.
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He left his Apple Watch and I went through it. He was meeting w his coworker to make out after work 😂😂😂
I was married at 17 and a few weeks after marrying, opened an email of my ex husband that was a craigslist M4M reply. Read "can't wait to have that a** again". I got stuck on the again part. Found out he was closeted, divorced him and life went on but it definitely sucked
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My ex was in the military and he flew into my city for an army marathon. He did his event and went to the bar that evening with some girls from his former high school. He called me the day after the race to tell me he was in town. I eventually found out he hung out with these girls bc I follow one on IG. She had posted a group pic which included my ex. When I confronted him, he told me it was no big deal. 🥴
I bumped into them at the mall lol
She posted a pic on IG two weeks after we broke up with a different guy saying how great the past few months had been with her “love” and how she was pregnant with his child