Stuck w/my boss. Toxic behaviors too long to list but namely blatant lying, manipulating & sweeping sexual harassment under the rug. Tried talking to boss directly, HR, & job searching. I’m at a loss.

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Get out. Don’t trust HR. Document everything.

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Media?

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