Talked with a hit on Grindr, after swapping pics and he said “handsome”, but after an hour, he blocked me. Thoughts??

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Sometimes when you realize you're not into someone mid way thru a convo it's easier to make a bland nice/handsome comment and then block at a later time so they don't realize you blocked them. Instead of actually having to revert and tell no longer interested and and explain why, blocking immediately or ghosting.

Regardless we are all assholes online sometimes - he's being a dick, don't waste time on things you can't change.

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Find a new hit

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Happpens. All. The. Time.

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Are you non white? That’s my life

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In such case, he wasn’t as into you as he made it seem. Same has happened to me and it’s so annoying.

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Probably wasn’t into small talk.. likely just sex, like ASAP.

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Or he deleted his account after he found love of his life 😂

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Maybe he was a recruiter

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He wasn't into you. Just wanted an easy way out of the convo without just ghosting. It happens but there are many other fishes in the pond

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He isn’t interested in faces but at least is nice enough to pay a compliment

Face pics or nudes?

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