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We live in a good public school district.

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I recently moved just for this!

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You can do X after you get married <insert any fun activity for X>

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Do I have enough for their education? 🤔

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Aaj iski nazar utaarni hai

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Beta Econ major is fine but .... why not Computer Science? Is kya kya “scope” hai?

SP1 for the win. I am already sanwali and have been told the chai thing.

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Somebodys gonna get hurt

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*hurt REAL BAD

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I am American born and raised but my kids and I speak in Urdu one whole day of the week so they are fluent lol

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Good job on that 👏

1. I want to keep my hair open
2. …for the “same”
3. I will revert to you…
4. Male: I don’t know what dress to wear today

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Beta, andhera hone se pehle Ghar aa Jaana

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Brings home the entire fruit section from Costco

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🤔DS1 - what is particularly desi about that?

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Before buying anything I do math $1x70 and decide if it's really worth

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Fresh off the boat

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We had so much hardship, still I used to top in my college.

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Become an engineer , and then do whatever you want!!!!!!

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Humhe bahu nahin.. Beti cheeye.

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Logh kya sochenga?

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What WOULD people think?

When did you shift to Chicago?

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If one is close to 30yrs -> Shaddi kab kar rahe ho? (When are you getting married?)

If one is already married and close to 30yrs -> Bachon ki khush khabari kab de rahe ho? (When are you giving some good news?)

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Already have kids and close to 30 —> baccho ki IIT coaching kahan se kara rahe ho? 🤣

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I won't allow my kids to peel the plastic cover on the tv remote

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I’m one of those kids who love to peel the plastic off because I have itchy fingers

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Kid “can I have a sleepover” Me “Of course not!! You have a perfectly good bed here!”

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Hamare time pe tho…..

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When I was a kid, I thought being a scientist would allow me to learn about the world. I didn't realize just how much paperwork there is.

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Just had our first, weighing the pros/cons of staying in consulting for another 4 years

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Hi girls,

I joined the current company when I was about 2 months pregnant and they were extremely welcoming.. My baby is now 2+ years and we are planning to have another baby soon. What are your views on opting for the maternity leaves 2nd time within 3.5 years of joining the company? Would it reflect badly on me? Btw, I'm a high perfomer at my company and have also had a promotion recently. I am feeling too guilty but baby no.2 is also a priority given the age factor and the fertility concerns

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I’m 5 weeks with my second and dying of exhaustion and nausea. Let my kid watch two movies this morning while I slept and then also slept during their nap. Wtf. I have some part time freelance work I need to do and can’t find the energy at all. Almost thankful to have lost my job, I don’t think I could handle it. I remember if being like this the first time, but man.

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So, I really ****ed up today and don’t really know what to do. W/O getting into specifics, I tried to do something nice, which involved telling a lie, and then got sort-of caught, but then lied again to cover my ass, and it’s spiraled out of control and now I don’t know what to do. Obviously I need to come clean, but I just really, really f’ed up and am freaking out. Everything has been so freaking stressful lately that I’ve done things I never thought I would & don’t even know who I am anymore.

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Kya palti fir woh ! Kaat diya.

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I love the C in ABCD. Confused or chutiya whatever.

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Had to vent out !

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