Thanksgiving is coming up and debating if I should invite woman I'm seeing to a family and friends gathering. On one hand we're super early into dating, on the other hand she knows very few here (foreign exchange student) and most likely doesn't have anything planned. Should I invite or not?

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Invite but tell her you won't be offended if she's uncomfortable/have plans and doesn't want to come

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Invite, and tell her you’re excited to show her a traditional thanksgiving experience. Don’t make it about ‘meeting the family’ but about showing her how you do things.

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You can invite her, but don't make it sounds your relationship is too serious for your friend and family.

Senior consultant dating a foreign exchange student? How old is she?

She's a masters student not undergrad. 25+

Ask if she has plans first tho! Just invite her as a courtesy. Honestly if she’s foreign I think she will be OK with it

I feel like Americans might make a bigger deal out of it.

Yeah I will once I confirm my family won't make a big deal lol

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