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The guy I’m dating (dating for 1 month, exclusive for 2 weeks) went to test for COVID because he feels sick and wants to postpone his deferred exam. His result came back negative today and he told me that he would try to use an app to change the results so that the university will postpone the exam. I consider this to be a red flag because this sounds like a serious personal integrity issue regardless if he succeeds in doing it or not. He might cheat on other things. What do you think?

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It depends on you, but yeah, I personally have an issue with people that do things like this for the same reason I guess not a red flag for everyone, I don't necessarily think it means he will cheat on or lie to you but I just don't like the values implied

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Well, if his school only grants an illness exception when you have covid, that's pretty crappy. If he has the flu or a bad cold, he should be able to postpone It might just be easier than going to the doctor and trying to get a note for whatever he has

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Haven’t you ever lied about being sick to get out of school or a test or going to a party? We all lie. Do you not ever lie? This seems like nbd

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Encourage him to just tell them he’s sick, coughing, etc - they should be sensible and postpone without him having to make up stuff.

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Girl if you think it's a red flag yours is the only opinion that matters

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