The other day I went to my coworker’s place after lots of drinks at a work event. We slept together. Nothing happened but we kissed. I’m now kind of conflicted as he is a coworker but I (badly?) want to hookup with him.. I think he does too, but he feels bad as our common boss saw us go home together that day, embarrassing. More context: we work in the same group but different cities. We’re at the same hierarchical level too. What should I do? Are we borderline? Thanks for the advices 🐠 🐠

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Or do and keep it on the DL

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Go for it. Worse things have happened! And did your boss really notice? Likely not.

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Yeah, but we’re all adults here. Though I can say I’ve never had a workplace tryst—not because I’m against such a thing per se, but because the opportunity never presented itself or I wasn’t interested. But I’ve had friends and coworkers who have and it never seemed to cause too many problems, even after the relationship ended. Or so I’m told…

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Just don’t. Keep it professional.

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