The person I’m seeing has been responding to my texts days later (only a recent development) and it’s making me anxious. They have been busy the past two weeks with PhD exams and their last message was them planning when they could see me again (in a really flirty way too), so logically I know the delay is not a sign of disinterest. But I have an anxious attachment style (if that’s not obvious) and my therapist is on leave right now, so I’m struggling. Do any of you have any advice?

At this moment, I am almost depressed. I am in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now. In the past 2 years, we have fought more than we have lived days with peace. We both have high ego problems because of which it’s really hard to resolve a conflict. Things have recently escalated to calling names/swearing and even physically abuse from both sides. We both want to end the relationship, have tried so many times, but we cannot.

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After 12 rounds of me vs my adhd - its still a LOVE/HATE relationship. I conclude I’m in the wrong career as a result. I love being smart, excelling, having random super human skills. But my career/stalemate with my own mind makes me feel like I am the biggest loser fuck up ever. All the time. I 1000% understand why work isn’t working out. I empathize for all involved > they probs deserve. Thrilled to figure this out but OH F$CK this is gonna get BAD bad before it gets fixed. Commiserate?

I think I lost my fire. I’m so incredibly calm and don’t care about anything including deadlines. I do still submit them on time, but I don’t care or feel anxious. Is it the meds? Has anyone ever experienced this? How did you overcome this?

Anyone use italic?

Just got back from an 8 week scan and there was no heartbeat. Second pregnancy in a row. Not sure how many more times I can do this.

I thought that this space was for search a relationship 😅🤣😅🤣😅

What is the reimbursable OPD limit in the base cover provided by Optum if I do not choose any additional floater cover?
Also are dermatological treatments covered for reimburse?

Anyone feeling depressed after the debates? Civility is dead. No one is uniting us. Instead of the United States, Trump is separating us into red and blue states. We're a divorced couple that refuses to go counseling while sharing the same house. The past 4 years have been too much.

I'm so glad to see the changes to accept more women in academia in recent years. I'm hopeful that my own daughter will be able to follow in my footsteps one year.

How do you think climate change will impact insurance coverage in the future?

Estrogen maybe not the sole protective factor, but progesterone has some known anti-inflammatory effects

My wife describes my job as ‘like cramming for finals every day.’
Sounds about right.

Do people tend to remain close to their siblings after marriage/ getting into a serious relationship? Or does life tend to take over and losing touch is somewhat normal?

What is something you found about yourself after moving away from family that you would have never imagined? For example the food you like that you never imagined before or sports or the kind of person you date?

16 weeks and so worried all of the stress I’m under is going to hurt the baby. Between work, my own scary (non-pregnancy) health stuff, the pandemic, my mom (who is a widow and lives alone, basically isolated by choice due to covid) is having health issues, and pressures to keep billable hours up, I’ve been having complete breakdowns. Today I spent almost the entire day crying and now have to make up the billable time this weekend. I really worry abt what effect this will have on the babe.

Question on vaccination requirements. Does anyone require the booster to be considered “fully vaccinated?” We are requiring employees to be boosted to come into office and I’m not sure if that’s legal.

Anyone willing to refer me to Equinox? Also how's the gym in Anthem Row specifically?

Just sent 4 previously vented patients home today! Wonderful. Just wonderful

I don't know if this is right bowl...but I will ask anyway..I feel insanely attached to my kids...even if they get a minor cut/pain, I assume worst & get really worried to the extent I can't think, eat or do anything. Negative thoughts are taking my life away...my wife feels & I agree that she has lost her place in my life and all I care/love is kids. They take priority in each & everything. This is impacting my personal, mental & social life. Anyone in same boat? If so how do you navigate it.

No change in diet/exercise, but have accumulated multiple cuts - including deep cuts - on hands that have not healed (whether due to nutrient deficiencies or stretching of skin from all the handwashing). As natural healing will not occur without action, what are some measures I can take and specific products (moisturizers are not enough) I can apply to expedite this healing process? I developed Pavlovian symptoms to refrain from moving hands beyond neutral position for pain/damage prevention 😭

Can someone case with me tonight? I have deep interview anxiety. 7PM EST?

After initiating exit from mywipro, when will I get LWD confirmation mail from HR ?

How to join SAP LABS after working for 8 years as SAP functional consultant?

I am working as a SharePoint consultant and have an experience of 8 years. Please let me know in case of any openings

Although summer vacation is about over for some of us, what do you do as summer jobs (to get by when school is out)?

How to get released from current project in Wipro.

For all my m&a finance and accounting 🐠- anyone made the switch to corp dev from IB/Consulting/or even PE? What has your experience been in industry? Why did you make a change? Top 3 pros/cons of going in house?

Which company out of bank of america and cgi is good to work for?

A 5% raise in light of 1) calling it a “substantial” improvement on last year 2) inflation running above 9% 3) peers at other consultancies getting 10-15% raises in non-promo years is extremely disappointing

Does Korn Ferry Advisory (Org Strategy) have a good reputation in the region? What would be the pros moving there from Big4?

41F, just found/joined this bowl and the bowl picture is cracking me up 🤣🤣🤣

Is “Day One” tomorrow? Or does all the stuff Biden is going to do on Day One happen Thursday?

Does anyone work for Biogen or BMS I have a free questions on a couple of positions I'm interested in.

I have opted for LTA in FBP, but cannot find LTA component in payslip. Also tax is not deducted in my first month salary. Can anyone shed some light on this.

What’s everyone doing today

Do people tend to remain close to their siblings after marriage/ getting into a serious relationship? Or does life tend to take over and losing touch is somewhat normal?

Boyfriend got off the phone when the argument was his fault. Thinking about being the bigger person and calling him to resolve it, but realized I’m the one who always calls back and apologizes first. I want him to but also don’t want this to drag on. Thoughts?

12 years and my partner won't do chores. Vent vent vent. I make 80% of our income and pay 80% of expenses. I'm also tidy but hate cleaning. Partner works 20-30 hours/ week no kids and is a slob. 3 months ago made chore list, got them to sign on the list the 50/50 split that it was fair. 3 months later I've been doing my chores they haven't done any. Brought it up today and was accused that the list was unfair they refuse and they dont have time because they must "work to subsidize your expenses"

Men of FB, how did you girlfriends / wives sex drive change with age?

My boyfriend and I already live together (I moved into his 1BR apartment this year), and we’re excited to get a new place together in early 2023. Any practical tips on how to decide what furniture to keep vs. replace? We’re still renting, so I’m inclined to just keep what we have. What pieces are worth buying new now vs. holding off until we have a more permanent place?

What’s a good non romantic birthday gift for a roommate? M gifting a F

If someone said (over text) “happy thanksgiving to and for you” what would you think they meant? To be clear the intent was “Happy Thanksgiving to you” as a greeting and “happy Thanksgiving for you” as in, I am giving thanks for you.

My GF has trouble standing up for herself. She's on client travel and one of her co-workers made her really upset (very uncalled for and should have never happened). She called me crying. After consoling her I told her that she needs to go to her manager and possibly HR (yes it's to that level).
She told me she can't and she's not that person (she thinks she'll get the other person fired). She knows that she should and hates that she doesn't stand up for herself. What can I do to help?

How you do you get over trust issues from a previous ex and trust your current SO? My ex cheated on my for months and I caught her by going through her phone and I find myself fighting that urge to go through my current SO’s phone even though I have no reason to.

Has anyone been in a relationship where it’s so wrong but feels so right at the same time? Wrong in the sense that we are different religions, speak different languages (common language is English) and have an overall different outlook on life. Right in the sense that he treats me so well, he’s grounded and driven. I am so torn.

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

Have you ever rekindled an abruptly ended relationship? What areas of alignment are recommended before embarking on this

I recently watched a video that talked about "voluntary reduction of income", which is where a person intentionally leaves their job and/or takes a lower paying job than what they qualified for in order to decrease chid support payments. I don't understand why anyone would ever do that? Can anyone explain reasoning behind this action?

Gift ideas for a SO? Looking for ideas to give to a guy as a token of appreciation. $50ish? Im seeing many girls turn to PS5 but I'm looking for something more personal