The small firm I work for has a terrible turn over rate and I think it is in part due to the firm owner/managing attorney. He seems oblivious to this and always finds fault with the people who leave. Is there any good way to approach this with him or am I better off keeping my mouth shut? It’s affecting my work because I keep losing assistants and paralegals and then having to get new ones caught up.

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Unless you want to be the next one out the door, I'd recommend staying quiet. (At least until you have another offer firmly in hand.)

P.S.: Don't stay in toxic places like that if you can help it. It won't get better.

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Doesn’t seem like the best long term career choice. Get what you can for the experience and move on. Working in such a work culture can only hurt you

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His attitude is toxic and you will feel the effects emotionally eventually. That will affect your enjoyment and motivation. Start looking

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Basically sounds like my firm. My boss is never the one at fault because he/she is perfect and gods gift to humanity. There is no changing someone like that. It would just be a waste of your breath and likely put you on their sh*t list.

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Say nothing at all. If you brought this to his attention, he’d see *you* as the problem. He doesn’t really seem to have a knack for introspection. I’d quietly plan my exit strategu

.... and we just lost yet another paralegal after maybe two weeks.

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