There are some kickass POC in my office who get respect; they’re more senior than me. I feel like people don’t react as well to me, even though I do/say similar types of things. Tips to get respect?

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Challenge them to a fight to the death?

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There seems to be a lot of context missing in this question. Without it, not sure I can offer sound advice other than to tell you to seek out one of those senior POCs as an advisor and possibly an advocate

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Uhhhh

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Not sure if you can assume the same respect just because POC at a higher level get it too. Perhaps it has to do with your title and/or earning it than expecting it. I am referring to respect in a business context, not basic human decency. I hope you’re not facing the latter.

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You’re low key envious. Channel that energy a little more strategically. Check your humility, set boundaries, and believe in yourself.

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