There is a new project that my SO (also at Deloitte) has been really interested in but wasn't offered a position. Yesterday, out of the blue I was offered a position on that team. Advice, tips, etc?

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Please, pleeeaase stfu HC1. Yes it was technically sexist but stfu.

@OP that's a tough one. If it's good for your career I'd say go for it. There will obviously be some slight jealousy, but if you guys have a healthy relationship I'm sure you'll find ways to prevent if becoming an issue

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Spicy, enjoy

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Pleeeaaasssssseeeeee guys, this PC crap is out of control. I make every effort to ensure my communications are all inclusive, but, if I slip up and use a gendered term in the context of a conversation that applies to the VAST majority of the population, please let it slide. No one is trying to be offensive

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Very sexist at D1 you assume poster above is female

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Exciting. I'd say take it. Then tell him how awesome it is!

Or you could suggest him?

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I'm interested in hearing @HC's response to this actually

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HC1, Thanks for adding value. You're the biggot for not considering LGBT.

A man can can have a man as a SO, get with it.

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@HC1 no

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@op fine fine. Are you interested? I guess that's the first question. The second question is how significant is the SO. If the answer to both is yes and significant then I would come clean to my SO and say "I was offered, and would take it if not in this situation, so what would you like me to do?" If it were me I would be fine with any response. Whether it was take it, refer me, don't take it, etc. but you have to be fine with all of those before asking the question. I would certainly pause and ask clarifying questions if the immediate response was for you to take it. I would read verbal and non verbal cues and stretch it out over a day or two until you come to an agreement together. On the other hand if you aren't interested or the SO isn't that significant than it's rather simple.

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Take it OP! Loving partners will understand and support you

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@D2 didn't your mother (or father.. see how I did that) teach you what happens when you assume??? It's getting harder and harder being a straight white male in this world.

Wow @D1 way to then assume I'm a big for not considering the LGBT community but what about the LGBTT2QQIIAAP community as a whole? Or are you assuming that everyone has a LGBTT2QQIIAAP partner and not a cis-heterosexual one. Not only are you sexist you are a sexist bigot!

Aww @D2 u cute😚. I just trollin😅

I actually enjoyed that response. I'm not your buddy, pal. While we could do this all day, let's get back to the problem at hand. Not talking about you being a white male, or how much "harder it is getting to be one" but instead that the OP's SO (decidedly a dude) was outshined by his SO/life partner. How do they break it to the poor guy?

Agreed, the last quote from HC was pretty good.

&@d1 I'm going to leave that Dane cook quote righttttt where you leftttt ittttt

OP, what is the sex of the SO? And are you going to take it? Or let him down easy?

I learned early on, if you're called out for an assumption, you ride it until proven wrong

I would take it and ask if there's any room for your SO.

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