There’s a few married women in the PTA who flirt with me. It’s mostly innocent and I put up with it cause we carpool for school/practices/etc. But over the weekend one very bold mom sent me some nudes and propositioned me.

Can I ignore this and act like she didn’t send me anything? I’ve never received unsolicited nudes so what’s the protocol lol

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You can ignore her and pretend she didn't send you anything - I think that's what ghosting is! Haha! She will get the points eventually....

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Ghost once, shut her down if she pushes any further.

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Reply back with the flattering partner response to slides:
Thx for sending. Looks good

Sent from iPhone

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That actually would be better because my personal phone, the one with her nudes, is a Samsung galaxy phone haha

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Don’t you dare hurt her feelings. Share my phone instead?

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Well if I make that kind of effort in my response, imagine what you gotta do 😎. Don’t screw this up!

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“Sorry, did you mean to send these to your husband?”

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Yep, that oughta do it 😂😂😂

Make sure your wife knows, first Lol. Then ignore.

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Lol don’t think my other message is showing up but she’s married and I’m not into it

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Tell her your flattered (even though you’re not) but just not interested. That would be the mature thing to do.

Or you can just ignore them and hope that she’s gets the point.

Are you a lot younger than these PTA moms ?

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LOL I doubt their husbands would consider it “innocent”. But I get your point.

The protocol? 😂

Tell her you enjoyed the photos and make no commitment.

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Can you just play dumb and say - hey so and so PTA mom, I think you accidentally sent me something that isn’t for me.

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Avoid. You do not want the husband showing up at your doorstep with a firearm. Anything can happen.

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So she needs some real love, eh?

Oooh this is tough. I feel like the best course of action here is to respond kindly and say you’re flattered but you don’t feel comfortable given the situation.

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It depends. Were they good nudes?

Let’s just say the lighting and angles were the best thing in those photos lol

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So messed up. Tell your wife and decide together how to handle it.

If you're uncomfortable, please set boundaries. You could communicate and tell her to stop (politely, yet firmly).

Haha! That's a good one. She could find other ways to do the same thing again! Or make you uncomfortable again. There is nothing wrong in telling how you feel (F speaking).

Get a new phone!

If you need a Bro, I’ll distract her. Send me her number.

They can’t make up their mind. I got you.

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