There's one thing that differentiates the American soldiers from others, and it's our love for our country. Agree?

Anyone have a good handyman they’d recommend? Mid-City area. Need a bathroom fan fixed.

Is there an absolute moron’s guide to Index Match? I have two tables of users, some exist on table A that don’t on B, and vice versa. I need to merge them based on their email as the unique identifier

How come the full time hires for MBB at Columbia are vastly larger than the number of internships?

So I got an offer with Google (Cloud Consultant). No other offers, but this is a pretty big low-ball. It's actually less than a Big 4 contract position I turned down. I'm feeling conflicted since there's no coding involved on the job, I feel that I will be losing my hands-on coding skills, which may hurt later as I would love to start a startup at some point, as a technical founder/cofounder. The job itself is mostly enterprise cloud migrations to GCP.

How do you guys deal with managers that give you extremely bad anxiety? I’ve been losing my appetite, feeling extremely stressed, crying after calls. I hate this feeling so any advice helps

Does it come off as pandering to thank partners for cutting their pay?

I get that partners are highly compensated, but a pay reduction is a sacrifice nonetheless.

I’m thankful and I hope they know.

Yelling is abuse. Discuss.

Spanx faux leather quilted leggings just arrived and I can’t wait to wear them..... to the grocery store 😑🤣

How's grade 6 with 4YOE having 130k base salary in California?

Hi, I am new in town and looking for a flatmate/sublease in UES; Is anybody here interested in:
- renting an appartment together? Or has a spare room - happy to join:)
- or has a studio/1bedroom appartment for (sub)lease? Let’s connect!

Can you help me? I’m working on my mission statement and would love some feedback! Due to length constrains I’m putting it in the comments.

My partner threatened to leave me if I don't stop working because I'm completely overtaxed and have become a nightmare to be around, and we don't need the money. This is obvious a terrible thing for them to say, but it was in the moment and they expressed they didn't mean it as a real threat afterwards. Other than telling me they should go to therapy, should I be considering taking time off? I love my job and sometimes I think it's actually the only thing that's providing a modicum of sanity.

Stayed at a Tier 7 Ritz-Carlton and was totally skipped by housekeeping one night of the stay, called to make front desk aware and they just sent up new towels. How many points is fair?

Does Seyfarth Shaw offer 401k matching for associates?

Someone needs to decide whether realization or utilization is more important because I'm sick of getting emails that say I'm under utilized and then getting emails that say I'm over budget! Can't win!

Is 7 months into a job too soon to leave a firm for a better opportunity/bigger firm/practice area of interest?

A CW posted a while back asking if there were sites to find freelance or pro bono work on the side to help build some good, creative work for their book. I can’t find it. What were those sites?? Thx

Anyone have advice for talking to teachers in your school that are upset with you?
My 4th grade class didn’t show up today because the teachers are upset that student behaviors that are an issue in music are carrying over to their classroom. I understand their frustration, but nothing was communicated with me. I even thought things were going better this week.

Who is ready for the future? I’ve been in the military for 5 years now and am looking ahead to a bright future in this industry!

Looking back... We were all very lonely during deployment. How did you cope with it?

Are there any like, support groups out there for people who are new to the military?

What made you choose this path? Enrolling in the military requires a particular mindset and set of circumstances. Analyzing those with a clear mind is crucial to a healthy post-service life.

How have you maintained your mental stability while serving?

Getting into the military helped my feeling of abandonment due to my father's absence. It sounds funny, but being in the military showed me another type of parenthood that I needed.

If anyone here is wondering how to best use their GI Bill... I HIGHLY recommend using the GI Bill comparison tool. Has anyone else here used it??

How do you deal with PTSD from deployment?

Which branch of the military is the best?

Don't ever forget you're still a human being, so treat yourself as one! What are some things you do to clear your mind?

What are some benefits that veterans can use?

I was always the captain's favorite because I was the first to follow an order, never questioned, and never hesitated. That made me an outstanding soldier but not a very good leader, I don't know what to do if I'm not receiving orders.

Does anyone else feel like they have become too utilitarian and objective?

I was so impulsive before the military. Training changed everything for me. What part of your personality did the military change for the better?

This might not be possible, but I would like to know how I would go about getting paperwork about my late grandfather who served in the Navy during WWII. Does anyone know how or even if I could do this?

I'm a little over the weight limit for serving in the Air Force but it's my dream, so I would appreciate any advice on how to lose weight quickly

My mother always kept me going, even in the most difficult times, everytime I spoke with her on the phone while I was deployed I left smiling and feeling the warmth that only a mother could bring, I'm here thanks to her.

It strikes me that attention is only being paid to the incursions into Ukraine when China is also attacking Taiwan. What about communist countries?

The military saved me. I'm serious. I brought so many conflicts into the service, my father was an alcoholic, and I was an opioid addict. I've been clean for seven years thanks to my training. Forever thankful to the troops for that.

As a Black woman in the military, how did you learn to deal with the policing of your hair?