Thinking about getting a divorce. Anyone do it then regret it later?

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I hope his wife does the same.

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You don’t have to get a divorce - Move family to far suburbs, get a nice apt in the city, get a side chick, tell wife you have to work longer hours on a deal so might stay in the city, see wife mostly on weekends

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That’s unequivocally awful ~

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So sorry to hear this. It depends what are the reasons behind the desire to pursue a divorce.

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^^wut mind blowing

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