Thinking of taking geographic to whole new level and moving to a Muslim country. Long history of alcoholism and mental health issues in my family, and want to bring up my kids with a different foundation. Have I lost my mind?

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I 100% think you've lost your mind.
Which country are you thinking? Alcohol isn't banned in most Muslim countries. The ones where it is are pretty hard line, or not places people with other options typically go.
Countries that do ban alcohol you're talking Saudi, Iran, Pakistan, Somalia, Afghanistan, etc.
Alcohol is legal in many muslim countries, especially the ones a westerner might consider living in such as UAE, Qatar, Bahrain, Egypt.
Also, while alcohol may be illegal in some countries, getting mental health support those countries is going to be tough.
I've spent plenty of time in the ME, military and civilian, and would absolutely not recommend moving there for a non-Muslim.

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No. In the same boat. Can DM. Will be better for the kids than if you stay here and they see your decline

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Thanks will reach out

Everywhere you go, there you are. I moved all over for a geographic cure until I realized I was the problem

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