This life is too much.

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I feel you OP :(

Why do you say that OP? What particularly is too much?

I can relate 1,000%

Every attempt I make at making my life better makes things exponentially worse...it’s hard to expect life to get better.

PM me if you want to talk! Things will get better :)

Hang in there OP. Feel free to DM for whatever - vent out, just talk, etc. There are people in your life who cares and would support you through and through ❤️

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