This time last year I knew I needed to stop drinking, but I couldn’t. This year, though, I’m putting my health first. Starting day 2 of sobriety and hope to keep it up. Thanks to this group for all the support and encouragement shown to those of us struggling with such powerful addictions.

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Almost three years sober. You can do it!

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Congratulations to you!! Thanks for the encouragement.

10 months sober here quick lessons: it’s all about changing habits, perspectives, priorities. Keep focusing on how you want to change verse your comfort zone whether that’s using for a crutch, anxiety/depression, or being around same people and places that are going to snap YOU back to where you’ve been and decided you don’t want to be. Cheers mate!

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You got this OP

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Just went to my first AA meeting. Feeling hopeful.

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Congrats! If you haven’t already I encourage you to find some AA meetings where you live. The AA website has a meeting finder!

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This means a lot. Thank you.

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You might find a day tracker like I am Sober to be helpful. I still check mine from time to time (just checked and hit 900 days today!). Also, literally everything gets easier in sobriety - not just the staying sober part, but relationships, finances, health, work, all of it. Hitting meetings is absolutely helpful but if you can’t, try finding some of the AA talks on YouTube or listening to some podcasts. Feel free to DM me for links. I also HIGHLY recommend getting a sponsor or temporary sponsor as soon as you can.

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Haha, just saw that someone else recommended Joe and Charlie too. Awesome :-)

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Thanks for sharing and keep it up, one day at a time

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