This weekend I went in on full cleaning spree. I’m taking deck - redo kitchen pantry - gardening - bedroom - and a cooking of meal prepping for week (which I never do )! ..didn’t go to sleep till 1am. Needless to say I took a PTO day today to sit and be in a coma state all day without doing anything at all 🤦‍♀️.. PleSe tell met I’m not the only one that goes through this cause it drives me crazy the day after a full on dopamine high . But the next day I am mentally non existent

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I feel this. Went to bed early'ish yesterday but couldn't fall asleep because i went too early, so barely got any sleep, had to take a nap. Impulse control is hard!

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You have to take advantage of the energy for those sprees when they hit or else nothing gets done. Honestly, good on you. Sure you took PTO, but you took it in a clean, refreshed environment. Even if you’re mentally non-existent, you can at least look around the house and feel satisfied, not dread.

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Yep. This happens to me far too often. It is such a struggle. I get hyperfoused on completing whatever project it is I am working on and I don't stop until I have completely finished it. I am talking no sleep at all.

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Painted my house in two days then spent a week in a fog.

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