Those w single parents - how do you go about mothers/Father’s Day? Can’t stand the social media, restaurants, etc on these days. Any advice is appreciated

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The same way people did before the advent of social media - celebrate without taking 138 pictures and post them on ig

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It’s a Hallmark holiday, don’t even think about it

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Father’s Day is not really a special day in my house but I do send private messages to my loved ones. All this performative social media crap gets on my nerves too.

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We can start celebrating Singles Day.

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