Those who worked at a toxic firm - when did you know it was time to leave?

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When I had an exit plan in place…which I put in motion ASAP. Negotiated a very favorable separation agreement for myself; I had a two year contract and walked away after 6 months with 18 months of separation pay.

TL;DR I’m the goat

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When everyone else started talking about leaving

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When I stopped caring about work and wished weekends were longer.

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When I realized waking up on a Monday before work actually gave me anxiety.

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When I started dreading going to the office (I am very social, love dressing up and never minded waking up early)

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When it got to the point that work was the only thing I thought about and it literally would ruin everyday activities like hanging out with family and friends

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Also when our CEO started a speech by saying "you are all monkeys, you do as I say"

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I never wanted to sleep on Sundays. I would stay up so late before my weekend would end because I was dreading the fact that I had work on Monday. The clock kept ticking and there was nothing that would ever slow it down.

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When they kept delaying my promotion

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When they gave me a 1.3% raise in 2022 (which was after accounting for heightened inflation)

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Sheeeeeeesh

As soon as my shit bonus hit my bank account

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10 years too late

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When I had high blood pressure , stress and anxiety and feeling crazy

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When I had an exit plan after realizing that I wasn’t motivated to get up in the morning to start work because the commute seemed extra long…yet I was WFH and didn’t have regular zoom meetings.

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When I was told that I was replaceable

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For one of my old jobs, I knew 6 months in. It took me 18 months after that to find the right fit. No regrets since leaving.

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I left when I started getting prehypertension, heart palpitations, and depressed (everything started to have no feeling) from the absurd amount of hours I worked.

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When the CEO yells at you and you did nothing wrong. He just needed to let his frustration out on someone. I was the unfortunate victim.

I was super stressed out and I was also pregnant at the time. They didn’t care about giving me breaks and would push me to take the next client. I knew then it was time to go.

When cultural and management issues compounded over time. It started with small things, like not getting a competitive raise, being taken off lists for conferences, etc. As things like that continued over time those added up and I realized I was starting to not care about my work or the firm anymore

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