Three weeks into a relationship and I’m not sure anymore. Thing went fine at beginning but I started to notice some of his action don’t align with his thoughts. For example, he will say that he will never let me go but also telling me that he doesn’t love me yet. He also shared my private information with his family without informing me first. He also overshares his past relationship and sex life that I never ask about and make jokes of how I cheat on him when I look at phone. Should I leave?

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what “private information”?

but yeah … leave

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Dump him that is weird and disrespectful. Like I’m American culture 98% don’t share their sex like w parents so why talk about their partner’s. Like did he casually say something like “yeah she has a body count of 11, less than granny and prob you mom but dad you probably about there right?” In the middle of chomping on corn. Weird af

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I think if you’re asking yourself this right now so early in the relationship it may be for a reason? What is your gut telling you?

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His behavior sounds controlling.

1. Sharing your personal information with his family without your consent is a huge red flag
2. Over sharing about his past relationship is strange. Looks like his past relationship is affecting him and he is unable to move on.
3. Accusing you of cheating when you look at your phone is hilarious!

To me, it looks like he is carrying his past traumas.

Have you communicated with him about how his actions make you feel? If you haven't, you could open up about how you feel and observe if he amends his behavior. If not, leave.

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Unfortunately, these behaviors won't change overnight. He sounds immature. I am always inclined to save a relationship. However, in this case you'll just keep pushing the end of a relationship. Please consider leaving

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Three weeks and all of this? Nah, quit game.

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3 days, 3 weeks, or 3 months. Breaking points.

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Leave...... Now

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I’m sure there are two sides here, but 3 weeks just isn’t a long time. He’s giving you red flags, so bounce.

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Leave his ass. You deserve better.

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A1 🤦‍♀️

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Him saying that he will never let you go sounds super controlling. I don’t like it.

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Three weeks? You should still be heady with lust and not see any issues! I have no idea what's going on, but it's not working - just politely decline and move on.

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3 weeks in and he won’t ever let you go… and you want him to say he loves you 🙄🙄🙄

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Run!

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