TIL I grew up in a codependent household from an Instagram reel

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Dear God, this is my spouse's family due to MIL. Worst part, nothing anyone can do🤷🏻‍♀️

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Oh the distance definitely is helping. We're on separate continents thankfully. The rest of the family living with her is troubled the most.
A very useful resource that explains her behaviour that I found on Reddit:
https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons.html

The page talks about why some kids and parents are estranged, which is not our situation, but the analysis still holds.

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Easier said than done. A lot to unpack here.

Hm?

TIL?

“Today I learned”

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