Tinder question. I matched with my manager. Does that mean he saw my profile? Please help

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Why did you swipe right OP? Subconsciously you want this. Don't fight the emotions . Go do him. :)?

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Never used tinder - so i may sound dumb...so what happens if the manager swipes right and OP did not? There will not be a match, right? So the manager would know OP did not match. Imagine how he would feel about it!

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LOL yes, he swiped right too

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Sweet. Keep us posted. This is juicy .

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Not gonna lie I did feel my heart skip a beat when I saw his profile ;)

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@PwC1 The only way to match on Tinder is if both parties swipe right. So OP, your manager definitely saw your profile, and he definitely liked it ;)

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I wish my staff was on tinder

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Aww, you'll be telling your kids about this! "We were working together, he was my boss, then we both swiped right on a hook up app"

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But I'm new to tinder and was not expecting to match with my manager! Lol

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Tinder has come a long way OP, lots of people meet their SOs on it. It's not just used for hookups anymore so I wouldn't worry about it. Evidence: Tinder Social...

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D1, don't date people on your project. Let the tension stay, as it can be exciting. When you roll off, perhaps pursue the idea or give it some thought. I'm a manager and single, it's both exciting and dangerous, not worth while still working together

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I wish my client counterpart was on tinder🤓

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Update: he gave me nice performance award 😍

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@ey1 are you serious?

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This is HILARIOUS! Please let us know how this goes 🙈😂😁

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👌🏻👈🏿🎉

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I wish my manager was on tinder

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and destroy that conference table at the client's ;)

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Did you match or just swipe right on him?

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Why does it matter if he saw you? Everyone has it.

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