To all 🐠 ladies in here! Do you all care if the engagement ring is “lab created” and not a natural diamond produced by our Mother Nature?

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A ring is a ring.. why do u care about it ? Does he care how you look with n without makeup, is it a deal-breaker?

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Ring is never grown on trees. All the rings are "processed". Just the degree of processing differs. And i won't mind wearing a highly processed ring if it looks great.

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