To all the guys on this bowl - Married / separated/ divorced/ Single/ trying to figure it out... What do you all think about boob jobs in general or any other body enhancement jobs ? See below

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I mean perky is great and all but access to them is far more important than perky IMO

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There are potential health aspects of it that you really need to think about. In my opinion if it ain’t broken then there is no need to fix it. Your husband tells you he is happy with how you look but you don’t believe him. Aside from what everybody else is saying you need to consider if you are doing this because you are concerned he will look elsewhere or is there some other reason. You should do to your body what you are comfortable with.

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Generally against it if it were up to me. Also agreeing with the no make-up folks above. There is a lot of beauty in being natural, and that is something I appreciate about my wife. Does she have a modelesque body? No, but its her body and its perfect to me and I think she is the most attractive person on the planet. That is what is important.

Ultimately do what you want that makes you happy, but I think your husband is telling the truth.

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Not adamantly opposed to but also i feel like really unnescessary when in a committed relationship.
Unless it’ll really change your day to day confidence, might not be worth it since at a certain point specific physical aspects kinda matter less.
I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and already she points out little changes that bother her that i neither notice nor care about one bit. Once you’re in love its all different

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It’s not doing this for my hubby, it’s for me. It literally changed the way I see myself. I am so conscious about it. Logically it doesn’t make sense but I am.

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Generally opposed. I don’t think I’m familiar enough with the all possible “enhancements” to give a knowledgeable response but I think generally unnecessary.

I also think my gf looks better without makeup but she likes it so I usually lose that argument.

whatever floats your boat, do it for you not for anyone else.

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I am thinking about getting it listed but it’s not for my husband because he says he doesn’t care. I am just so conscious about them gosh, I don’t even know why. I am very confident as a person.

Single male - boob jobs look good w clothes on but once they off, they look odd. I like women w authenticity and modesty especially when they have confidence in their own natural bodies

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I take it you have seen some

YOU DO YOU, GIRL!

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Not against them, but not going out of my way to advocate for them.

I will be against extravagant and excessive though.

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I just want a breast lift, no silicone.

get them and flaunt them! any dude in here that says he like modesty is prob the typical PA nerd that wouldn’t know how to treat or what to do with a beautiful woman!

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D4 - what’s your monthly e-thot bill?

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Married guy, there’s a health risk to implants. That’s why I’m against them. Don’t want my wife to leave before me and leave me with the little poop monsters!

Seriously, is there a spark post baby? Despite all of the struggle with kids, are you two finding time for yourselves?

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Meant to say cosmetic enhancements. Any procedure has a risk.

It seems the responses here from men are mostly no to boob jobs. As far as breast lift, it seems they don’t understand that. If you’ve got the funds and time for the breast lift, go for it. Who cares what others say except for your doctors’ comments. But you should care what your husband says or you should explain the procedure you’re doing and risks involved.

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For married couples, would you be okay with your wives getting a boob job after having kids?
I am addressing guys because I want guy’s opinion. No, I am not sexist and I love Diversity. Just trying to see if my husband is lying to me 😂😅. I hate how my boobs became after having my son. My husband says it’s okay but I don’t Don’t care nor believe him.

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Totally up to you! My fiancé was really self conscious about her chest and got a boob job to go up one cup size. They don’t look overly large and she seems much more comfortable with them!

Ultimately, what you choose to do with your body is your decision and shouldn’t be based on what OTHERS think of it. If YOU are not happy with them and feel a boob job would help you feel more comfortable, go for it. Best of luck on your decision!!

My wife has them and they are good. Feel soft as she did what she was told to do which is massage them. With that said, it doesn’t beat the feel of real boobs but they sure are attracting.
From a husband perspective, as long as your not flaunting them everywhere you go I’m fine. If you are, then it feels like your looking for more attention

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I don’t even want silicons. I just want them lifted. My size is big it’s just not looking where I need them to look. Thank you for your input.

Male here. Are you looking to get a lift and implant? If so, it's just to make you feel like your old self. I don't see anything wrong with that as you will feel better about yourself.

I'm not against boob jobs but hate the cheap over the muscle looking ones. If you're going to do them, do them right.

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Go for it then girl. I wouldn't even consider that a boob job.

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It’s literally two rocks and it kinda hurts when hugging, I can’t imagine what it’s like doing other stuff. But maybe technology has improved.

Ehh don’t go overboard, just fill in the sag space

No. Too fake.

What is fake about a breast lift? They are just removing and making tight and repositioning...

Please get it. I love it.

They look great but IMO don't feel the same to touch (lol).

As a guy, I understand it. I actually had some minor cosmetic surgery done, but underlying reason was for me and my own confidence/self esteem. So if something makes you feel better, go for it. In that respect, I’m not going to judge anyone for work they’ve had. Plus it’s often done in context of reconstruction after breast cancer.

Everything else the same, I prefer them au naturale. But it’s not a deal maker or breaker. If tiddie work has been done, ideally it shouldn’t be readily apparent at first glance (imo).

Garish boob job is more of a signal that I might not like to date this person than an underlying reason.

Thank you For taking the time to explain... I just want a breast lift. I have too much boobs, I wear a triple D 42 and am small. Right now it looks like I have implants on if I dare wear a push up bra, I like push up bras because it contains everything.

I just want to lift and reduce the sise so I can be confident and not have people stair at me. Hubby days it’s in my head. At the pool or the beach, am always putting something on in addition to my bathing suit 👙 and I cannot even wear a two peace.

That’s too much information lol... I just want a breast lift.

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