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Chief
Good thing you found it early on
I’m sorry OP. Your values and belief did save you from getting hurt.💕He has explaining to do although I’m not sure I’d listen
Conversation Starter
I hope he steps on Legos OP
Chief
What are you texting about?
Conversation Starter
Lmao op your response
Chief
To clarify, is he still married? Separated?
Chief
Would be a red flag for me if his relationship status was unclear
Conversation Starter
This might be the obvious question but have you tried to talk to his wife? Or are you waiting for him to respond
Conversation Starter
Lmao bent over??? I hope you never get married and your significant other isn’t getting to know other people.
Maybe also because maybe op isn’t the only girl he is talking to. But like I said I didn’t know he was mid divorce and she doesn’t owe anyone anything.
Pro
If he’s separated and didn’t want to talk about it right up front, then maybe you should let him explain his situation. I don’t know why everyone is up in arms; see what he says.
Chief
You’re correct that extramarital affair cannot be committed by one person alone, but the way the law is written, at least in my state is that it’s illegal to be married and have sex with someone other than your spouse. It is not a crime to have sex with someone who is married. So you would not be committing a crime. And again, this would only apply if you were having intercourse with him.
Conversation Starter
So what was it about him that gave you vibes that he might be married?
Conversation Starter
@OP 💀💀💀
Pro
Wait is it like a site for wedding to come details chick full of registry gift ideas and event info???
@CR1 it’s something like a page on The Knot. So there will be a site dedicated to, say, Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds wedding on September 2012. So OP did a Google Search on Ryan and found this site.
You’d be surprised how many people have these pages and they remain up long after the wedding. Smart thinking on OP’s part and thankfully they found this.
Conversation Starter
I had to do that before
Enthusiast
GT1: here is the thing: if I do that, I might cause him to lose more assets than he was already losing due to her making less than he does, during the divorce proceedings. If she did cheat on him before separation, I think he is entitled to not paying her fully alimony. And I’m not going to increase his financial burden for the rest of his life just because he didn’t disclose this. The max I can do is to drop him.
Enthusiast
A lot of women who divorce, keep their married name. It’s a lot of hassle to change your name (I just got married myself). I know plenty of women who keep their married name until they remarried, so her keeping his, could mean nothing.
Conversation Starter
I am with OP on this one