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Took me a long time to figure out: 1) don’t interview for jobs, interview the boss you will be reporting to 2) don’t count on your employer for anything ( including your finances) have 2 or 3 side

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Why the fuck would it help my work stress to pick up 2 or 3 more things on the side to keep me busy, stress me out, and make money? How about just fucking murder it at work. Get promoted. Get your ass fucking PAID. Then fuck the side hustle. Find a hobby. Find fulfillment

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@xaxis- head space is just real estate in your thoughts. Like not thinking about asshole clients after work hours because it’s not worth it. It might sound dumb but being I’m super sensitive everything affected me disproportionately

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Hustles ALL the time 3) nobody will care about what you’re doing in 2,3 or even 1 year from now 4) Never give anyone more head space than they should 5) laugh - it’s therapeutic. And most of the most dramatic situations are borderline comical.

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Hrm. I’m with MD1 on this one. Side hustles are one thing when you’re just starting out. But when you move farther up the chain and get a family, get a team, get some bosses that own more than one house than you do, sometimes a side hustle is nothing but a distraction. A way to kill yourself, faster. 🤷‍♂️

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As Warren Buffet said, “if you don’t find a way to make money while you sleep, you will work until you die." Side hustles can be hobbies and hobbies can be side hustles.

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It took you a long time to figure out how to laugh?

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What do you mean by head space?

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2 or 3 side hustles?? What?

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If you make sure you invest your savings outside of a 401k, with a dividend and interest strategy, that is as good, if not better, than a side hustle.

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Yes..anything amazon seller, blog writer, real estate agent, translator, dog walker really whatever...

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Until the day the pink slip comes and you get the rug yanked under you...it’s happened to me ...twice...and boy was I happy to have some other things going on. Whatever happened to never put all your eggs in one basket??

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@cw1- it took me a long time to not take work too seriously. Laughing instead of crying cause at the end who really cares??

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Also think like a business man/ woman not like an employee...

Also, you're a marketing manager... how much life experience could you possibly have to be doling out this advice?

Hi @SD1- take it or leave it. Some people can have 20 years of experience doing the same thing over and over again. I’ve been around the block...enough to know to take control of your destiny vs putting your faith in something / someone else. Thanks!

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