Took me an hour last night to tell myself I’m worthy and attractive. This self therapy thing is hard.

I am feeling so lonely, looking for a genuine guy. For friendship.
I am 24 good looking from pune.
Apologies for posting here.

In my opinion one of the worse things you could hear from someone when you are dating is ‘I usually don’t talk to someone like you’. It makes it seem like you are just settling for that person.

Someone once said, if you are entrepreneurial enough, any app can be used as a dating app. I see that happening here on fishbowl when i came across this bowl 😂

Single traveling consultant in late 20s - can anyone offer advise on how to balance life and dating? Do you sacrifice dating to excel in career or slow down to prioritize more time on finding someone?

I was wondering how do other trans and non binary people find their boo.. the dating apps seem unreal and in person events are not that frequent.. DM me

Anyone up for a meet up in Budapest?

It seriously sucks to be the girl left in the dust when the guy you dated chose someone else. It sucks even more when that someone else is my best friend’s roommate. What a great ending to my week 🤦🏻‍♀️

Favorite sext emojis ?!

Any practicing Christians chosen to marry an unbeliever and turned out to be a happily married? Haven’t met a good Christian man in New York and I’m getting tired of praying and waiting. Should I expand my dating pool?

Tips for meeting someone off of bumble as a early 20s female new to the city??

Excited but don’t want to be too naive & put myself in a dangerous situation. Thanks!!

I know it isn’t late, yet. Does anyone want to chat with a 35+ F🐠?

Any single cute woman up for drink tonight?

I’m in consulting and I want to date. 30M in Indianapolis. Any fish out there?

Hey Desi fishes, need some advise. I’m dating my SO for 1+ years. He is American, so he introduced me to his family and extended family pretty early on (which is normal for them). Contd..

Should I gift a guy if he’s never gifted me before?

Any females for weekend casual meet ?

Do you consider yourself promiscuous?

Anyone ever end things w a dude you only went on one date with bc he wouldn’t stop hitting you up after and have the guy ignore you in public and unfollow you after? I don’t see what the big deal is. I was super nice about it. I get everyone hates rejection but he was doing a lot.

Anyone out tonight? Want to meet up on U St?

Does anyone work in Internal Audit, and if yes, can you share some information about the team structure and functions? I am planning to get into Internal Audit and would like to know about the nature of work.
Thank you

Got lwd in my mailbox but unable to open italent to check my workflow. When I will get access in italent. Please let me know if you have any info. Ty

Tiffany’s teeth...what’s going on there and why couldn’t they fix it?

How much fixed CTC to expect from synechron, pune ? Any range ?
YOE-12
Skills - Full stack java react microservices

Any market correction this time guys? When is hike coming....heard June/July or October...
What is correct? If October, why such a wierd policy of so long wait...by October , people will be focusing on this year cycle😂

Does anyone here house hack?

I feel like work is such a scheme lol

Best way to set up an ergonomic WFH set up? Debating between an adjustable standing desk, or monitors, or all of the above..(Btw I’m short - under 5’3’’ so any tips for shorties would be helpful as well!)

Anyone have any insight into the senior associate interviews for Capital One product management? Have a phone interview/screen tomorrow and hopefully the follow on interviews after

Mid level Electrical Engineer in the greater Baltimore, MD area making $115k base w/ $20k sign on bonus. No yearly bonus. I started this job in April of this year. 2-3 years experience. When I onboarded they told me to expect promotion to EE III in about a year. Performance reviews coming at the end of the this year and I’m wondering 1) if my salary is on par with what I should expect 2) how to approach conversations about raises and promotion with my supervisor. Thanks for any insights.

I have offers from jet2 travel technologies and pepsico. Jet2 offers permanent work from home.pepsico is hybrid. I am confused if I should go with the brand ? Is it good to go with Jet2- GCP or pepsi - Azure?

Best consulting firms to work for that will allow 100% remote work indefinitely regardless of what clients do?

Do you ever feel like people treat you differently at your firm because of your age? Like reverse ageism? As if you don't know enough or aren't competent enough yet? Just curious if others have ever felt this way.

Hey peeps...i’m doing research on enterprise SaaS solutions for healthcare claims management solution (e.g., claims administration, forms management, registration, submission and processing, adjudication, payments). Something that would connect directly with pharmacy network and provide real-time services along with everything else. Does something like this even exist?

Are people still hanging out in IOTA?

Has anyone misplaced documents related to their AOS application after filing the application? What happened next?

I am moving to Accenture from Deloitte USI in the SAP SuccessFactors practice. I had a zero learning project in Deloitte I would have no skill enhancement. How's the Accenture overall ? I heard they have a lot of projects

I hate my job. Absolutely despise it. Wake up/go to sleep every day with a heavy dread for the future. Grind my teeth in my sleep. Gaining weight. Blood pressure spikes whenever my phone goes off. Becoming unable to hide my disdain for coworkers and clients on calls, emails, etc. Have a loving and supportive partner but feel like I can't relate to her at all because she enjoys her work. I don't want to go back to my post-graduation poverty but damn, at least I felt like I was a real person.

I set up my boss to take on a client that I planned to steal from her. She thought she was using me but I was using her. When she asked me to prepare statements of work, I drafted it with my resume in mind. When she asked me to set pricing, I priced it at my desired salary. When she pawned the work off to me, I nonchalantly took point. Then slowly and surely, I made myself indispensable to the client. I can’t wait to tell her that the foundation’s offer is priced above her salary. Checkmate.

Do men actually like lingerie? I’m trying to figure out what to do for my significant other for Valentine’s Day. He’s a simple guy but I’d like to spice things up! Any ideas?

Note: i was told to ask in this bowl for better responses.

Feeling really demotivated!
A female associate recently made an allegation of inappropriate behaviour against me…Cont’d

If I am vaccinated and go to a bar or house party where other people are all maskless, I don’t think I should be shamed by PC friends the day after who say you are putting others at risk even though I don’t really put anyone at risk outside of the idiots taking a much larger risk unvaccinated at these superspreaders (live alone, home gym, order all meals and/or grocery, masked up all other places)

The pandemic and quarantine changed 0 things in my day to day life, aside from more grocery deliveries. I actually got promoted during it so it’s probably my best year in recent memory.

Dear Fish,

I worked out twice today on an empty stomach, then went to the airport to travel for the holidays. I’ve had two drinks and I’m very drunk🥺. How to fix?

Sincerely,
Me

Everyone whines about our dates (including yours truly) so what makes you a great catch?

What do you bring to the table ☕

I'm having trouble performing on a woman, but I'm totally fine performing on myself. Um, what can I do to fix this issue? Tbh, it's pretty embarrassing 😪

Which professions will all but guarantee you to achieve millionaire status?

Have an interview shortly here with my ideal exit op, appreciate some good vibes 🤞

Story: I had this group of girlfriends. Over the past year, two of them got in a major fight and I remained friends with both. The group all sided with one girl because they knew her longer, and I kept being friends with both because I genuinely cared for both. Now the larger group is saying if I remain friends with the other girl, I can’t be their friend (we’re 28). This makes me sad because I feel like my “friendships” are just falling to the wayside

Am I dumb/naive for feeling guilty about possibly leaving? 😅

I may get a remote role & almost 2x my TC just as my firm is rolling out an RTO plan.

I already felt kinda bad for interviewing b/c the people are great, but now they’re all dreading the day they have to go back in and I may not even be there.

Is this premature survivors guilt or something? 😂

(P.S. No way in hell I’d turn down the offer if I get it)