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Hmm great point because why not take some thing seriously, deeply personal, complicated, and emotional painful for women and turn in into a reductive joke that shows that there’s just no one way to be sexist.


1% of the population with dysphoria that we choose to respect don’t really change the condition for biological women .. but yea, idk, good meme


It’s almost as if identity politics is an absolutely braindead way to go about creating policy and understanding fundamental rights


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