Tough weekend personally. Took extended time off last year so I am reluctant to take off tomorrow. But I may burst into tears when the team asks tomorrow how the weekend was. I know it will get better but in the meantime, can’t tell the truth and can’t hide it either.

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Nothing wrong with a mental health day. How are you going to take care of yourself tomorrow? Let me know if you need Netflix reccomendations :)

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Get through tomorrow, get through the week, and start making moves to get out of the situation (if that's the problem). I feel you on every level, esp with this weekend-- but know there are many people there with you, and we will do this

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So sorry to hear OP! One day at a time. Just cut the conversation short tomorrow if asked about weekend. And do take time off once your case ends. If BCG is anything like Mck, you won’t get penalized for taking time off. Feel free to dm if you want to chat about anything. Sending love ❤️

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