Trying to figure out if I should get my own place or not - is it a turn off for you if you go to a guys place and he has 4 apartment-mates? Room is pretty big.

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How old are you? 30 here, turn on if people love alone, big turn on if they own their place and ooze responsibility

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Depends. Do the house mates join in?

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4 is a lot. How big is your place? I would think it s a turn off if we are trying to hook up for the first time, and as you bring me in, I also have to meet 4 news faces.

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Assuming you’re young and in a big/expensive city, I’d say it’s pretty normal. Agree with Bain1 that it’s weird to need to meet a big crowd pre hook up, but even with many roommates ppl normally are in their rooms and are surprisingly oblivious. I’d save the money until you (not others) care more

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It isn't exactly a turn off, but does make things a bit complicated (both as a host and as a guest)

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Are you single? If you’re comfortable with your roommates generally and they’re comfortable seeing your hookups around some mornings, I think it works. Otherwise you pay a lot more rent for occasional privacy.

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Well I am loud

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Yes turnoff but mostly because I’ve been burned by this before. I always ask about their living situation and suggest my place instead if there are roommates.

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Not always a bad thing safety wise...

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A hookup - yes. Dating - not necessarily

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