Trying to figure out what would be a nice gift for my wife's birthday considering she just became a mom and this is her first birthday after becoming a mother as well.

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A spa day. With babysitting.

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Yes on this! Alone time and pampering all the way!! Best gift ever for a new mom. It's overwhelming all of a sudden becoming MOM 24/7..

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Uninterrupted sleep. A spa day, all the self care things she's neglected herself on, haircut, mani pedi, etc. House cleaners so she doesn't come home to a disaster. All of her favorite foods that she couldn't have while she was pregnant. And while she's out, tons of really cute pictures of baby because she's definitely missing her baby even though she's enjoying herself. And if you really really want to outdo yourself, make it a whole weekend.

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OP nothing against you. That wasn't my intention, sorry if it made you feel that you had to explain yourself. I just mean sometime it's small thing that only other moms can truly appreciate. Sometimes things done with good intention come out wrong I was just trying to point out that this is truly fantastic advice from the point of view of another relatively new mom.

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Something up the kidless, relaxation route will definitely score major points!!!

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Or a weekend getaway if you can swing it and your little one is old enough, with spa things!

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Thank you for all the recommendations. My wife just got a haircut today and I have a mani pedi session scheduled for the birthday week. Trying to find a physical gift to give her barring these pampering services :) Thought of hoodie from latched mama , a smart watch with engraving, or something from Lululemon but undecided.

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The hair cut and mani pedi is nice but a spa where she can be gone for the day, with a massage or facial is a lot more pampering than those two things! Something to keep in mind :)

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