🙋🏾‍♀️Um. I give up.💁🏾‍♀️

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I'm just over it. There are too many hurt people out here trying to be in relationships, yet creating 'situationships' because of their unresolved problems. It is not to shame anyone, because I certainly do have empathy for those with mental health challenges. At the same time, I must realize that I'm not qualified to fix anyone. Sigh...Not what I saw for myself at 41, but everyone has their own path. Maybe one day. In the meantime, I'll focus on living life abundantly.🙂


🤦🏾‍♂️i get it.

If you’re in NYC, don’t give up. DM me instead.




🤔why is that, SC🤔

Dm if u are in Dfw area

Location ?


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