Thoughts on putting half or even more of retirement fund into AOR etf? 60 year old with $500k total. Planned retirement 5-10 years. It seems to do all the work for you, diversifying 60/40 equity/FI. Thoughts?
I been at my job for three year now, for a while now I been applying for other positions within my job because I want to leave my department. I don’t feel value and appreciated. They would rather hired a new manager than promote within. I have had interviewed in the past and recently but I am told to wait in HR for the final step but never heard from there whether they approved my transfer or not. Plus I am beginning to think my manager holding me back from transferring.
Fellow external recruiters: some of our assignments are straight contingency. But this market is insane. What’s been your experience when you try to get more guaranteed revenue?
This may be a totally bizarre question but is anyone else obsessed with Outlander? I can’t stop binge-watching. It’s all I think about. Do I need help?
Hiw much time thoughtworks take time to release offer letter, after hr round? Tia
Anyone have AWAY luggage? Thinking about getting the medium carry on suitcase. Coupon codes?
I have been waiting for a month for offer from pwc ac... everytime i call they first said mapping is pending ..now they are saying we are uploading in workday. Any one here can u plsase help me underatand how many days still before i get the actual offer
Still have several laptops from previous clients. No formal process for returning them. What should I do?
Anyone have a feel for the networking value at Union League Club or any other city clubs for lawyers under 40?
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2022 BCG SA here. How much choice do interns have in the project they’re staffed on? Whether it be client or city? What does the staffing process look like?
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Hey any new joiner in EY India LLP? In last 2 weeks?
There is some access issue going on for some new joiners. Any one facing same around here?
Do you think it's the fault of employees who work late or extend and set it as a culture or the employers who always wants more...?
I think even if u could say clearly NO there are management people who doesn't respect it.. based on my personal experience.
Has anyone planned or been to a small destination wedding (50 people) and have venue to recommend? Looking at Europe or South America
I am having an exp of 6.8years in Manual Testing .
I am holding an offer 16 lack fixed salary and 10% variable from ecolab company permanent payroll = 18 lap
Similarly I am getting offer of 24lpa fixed but it is C2H for 6 month.
Which offer should I accept
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I have a handsome client and can’t concentrate when I’m around him. He doesn’t exactly flirt but I feel paralyzed when he looks at/talks to me. This is day 6 of a 3 mth project...what do I do?
Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.
I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.
Tired of getting hookup-oriented solicitations and poor matches on apps. Let me be explicit on FB:
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I've told my close friends about me being bi however too nervous to tell my fam, I'm on the fence of waiting do so when I have someone to bring home but also feel like it's a big part of my identity and I'm so proud of it now. Anyone care to share their story/advice on how to being it up without making it a big deal? I hate that this is a thing! (F for context)
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Do you observe that people generally like younger folks? ( I feel that tops even more so) I got 3x matches on Tinder and real life when I was 21-25 then 26-29. I am worried.
Am i crazy for thinking that I can’t find someone who I like mesh with? I’m like okay I’m 25 in DC making great money for myself from work and my own business, and living on my own like love when?
I'm taking my bf to Istanbul/Turkey to celebrate his birthday in June. Any recs for things to do, places to see? Thank you!
Male fish, any one here did drag before? Want to try for Halloween and wish to start prepping now - so overwhelmed but determined to get my hair, make up and dress right!
Anyone here have insight into the LGBTQ+ scene in Denver or Houston? Got a job offer and would have to move to one of them in the next month or two.
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EY folks - anyone up for a virtual happy hour next week sometime? We could maybe use zoom?
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A bunch of gays will see it as racist, but then those same group will see the opposite as fetishizing. Gay community will find a way to judge you :)
It’s not “but” - the central thesis for both is the same: reducing your decision to a phenotype one way or the other
Just looking for a nice, loyal, top - I’ll take any color 🙋🏻♂️
That’s the right attitude!
I am a POC and I have dealt with a lot of "it's just a preference" Gays. Initially it used to upset me a lot because I have a a physically attractive body in general. It depends a lot on how the interaction goes. People have blocked me after sending pics saying sorry not my type, that's rude. Some people have went ahead and assumed if I am cut/uncut and went ahead with making judgement about what's wrong and right. That's rude too. IMO I feel it's their loss because they lost out on some mind blowing sex and for me my goal is to date a good hearted person and someone who does/says things like that is a big red flag and I would anyway never date someone like that apart from a casual hookup or two. Even if you are not sexually attracted to someone but if you are nice who knows you can make a good friend (maybe with benefits).
If you’ve never challenged the idea of how you landed on what you’re ‘attracted to’, you don’t know how your preferences were formed. So at some level, your dismissal of entire races of people is a conditioned response, based on, guess what?
I personally don’t think it’s offensive. I know people will disagree with me and call it racist, but I don’t find it different from people not being attracted to certain body types, ages, levels of natural hair etc. People like what they like. As long as they’re not rude about it, it doesn’t mean they’re a bad person.
As a side note, yes I’m white, but have encountered plenty of people who don’t talk to me because of some facet of my appearance (don’t like white guys, don’t like guys my age, don’t like thin framed guys, etc.) and I may find it disappointing but I survive.
Perspectives and perceptions change when shoes are switched. When it happens to you, you feel bad but with others you simply do not see it as offensive. Interestingly that is how the world works. Glad that this pride these conversations are happening and thanks to the pandemic people got some time to ponder over lol, otherwise this year too these things would have gone under the rug.
It’s definitely racist but I prefer for folks to be upfront about it. Gays love the Black aesthetic and their “inner Black woman” but do not actually love Black people, love that for y’all. Keep that same energy.
“Preferences” are rooted in bias; maybe not overt intentional bias, but implicit biases. What we find “beautiful” “attractive” etc has a lot to do with our conditioning..not just “nature”
That is true, and hey there is a term for that : Hypocrisy. All those guys will march for BLM, but when it comes to sheets, ‘sorry, yo that ain’t gonna happen’
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You think Matthew James isn’t hot?? He hot as fuuuck
No, because I don’t find white males remotely attractive.
I’m a white male who is attracted to all, but often date black men. I really think you like what you like sexually, and we shouldn’t feel bad about it as long as were respectful to all.. Life as a gay man is fucked up enough as it is, why do we have to make ourselves feel bad about what we are attracted to? Now, if all you do is hang out with other white gay men and have reached your 30s without a diverse network of gay friends then we may have an issue here.
I found this post quite helpful in better understanding and articulating a response to this question: