Very weird question to ask. 😄
Has anybody tried and tested ways to have a particular gender kid? I see chinese calendar theory and some sperm race thing.. lol. Planning baby *2 and hoping for the opposite gender of baby 1. Before anyone comes at me, we just would like to have one of each, and are not gender biased. 😊

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The Chinese had a one child rule for 36 years. That’s 36 years of millions of people trying to figure out how to guarantee that their lone child would be one sex—-male. They never figured it out.

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If you’re willing to pay for it, sure. Otherwise no

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Not at all. We're not desperate. Just wanted people's view if they tried something and worked out co incidentally. 😊

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To have boys, need to stick a finger in her bum when in the act. I thought everyone knew that.

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Hahaha, thanks for a good laugh. 😂

Don’t overthink it. The literal act of getting pregnant naturally is random. Consider yourself lucky if and when you have a successful pregnancy.

Or, pay $30k for gender selection IVF. https://www.cnyfertility.com/gender-selection/#:~:text=The%20average%20cost%20of%20gender,an%20FET%20of%20around%20%2422%2C000.

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I agree. Not looking to pay anything at all. Looking for people's opinion as to if something worked out co incidentally. Thankyou!

I’m 4/4 on girls and I’m pretty sure we conceived every one in pronebone (🐶 but she’s laying on her stomach). Didn’t plan it, we just really like the position 😎😎

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Thanks for the info! I'm sure your home is full of love, care and laughter. I love girls 😄

I’ve done major research on this and tracking date of ovulation method is the one most discussed. They say doing the deed closer to ovulation leans boy while 3 days before leans girl. Also there’s foods that they claim enhance chances. Acidic leans girl.

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Good luck!

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I've heard that female sperm is slower because it weighs slighty more(due to x vs y). So do your trying right on ovulation instead of days before.

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I mean, I didn't? I stated in my response that x chromosome carrying sperm (female) has a longer and larger tail while y chromosome carrying sperm (male) weighs less.

I mean not judging your intentions but unfortunately there isn’t any scientific way, unless you go by link suggested above. I have a boy and if we have another, I’d wish it be a girl. But I would still be going about it naturally and certainly not believe in any unproven methods. And if it’s another boy, I’ll welcome him with same enthusiasm..

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No I get it.. once you have raised one gender, you also wonder how it will be raising the other one.

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The Chinese also used to kill their children if it came out to be female

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I know a lot of countries had (has) this type of culture. I'm not at all trying to up one gender above other. For that matter, I have a boy and want a girl. 😊

You could also adopt.

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