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Visiting my SOs family and they have planned for us to drive to another city and spend a couple of nights there and do activities however no one is communicating how much the extra stuff will cost. Mind you the trip is tomorrow and they have known we are coming for a month. Should I ask how much this is going to cost us or do I just wait until someone asks me for money? I am afraid this might be like $1000 expense for us that is just unplanned.

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I’d have your SO handle it, tbh.

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This will be a good question for your SO.

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That’s on your SO. Maybe the family may incur the cost. Have had holidays like that.

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Talk to your SO to figure out what the dynamic is.

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